"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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This is the first time i've ever gotten....

idiot_boyfriend

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....an AIM sn instead of a phone number, so I have a quick question:

Is this future AIM convo going to be in lieu of an actual phone call? As in, will it be under about three minutes and soley for the purpose of scheduling a date?

Thanks. New to this forum, by the way.... usually i'm in the high school area, but I'm now college-bound. :D
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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darth yoda

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As far as I'm concerned, it's quick and to the point.

-Get the initial hi's out of the way
-small talk about her (always center conversation on her) make her laugh
-setup date
-ttyl

Oh yeah...get her phone number.
 

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Thanks. I'm planning to get her number ASAP.
 
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