"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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This is not about dating. This is about life.

moneyisking

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Hey, watsup champs, today, I want to write a little thought of my own and babble about some realizations in my head. It helps me to internalize better, and it helps for you to read it in various ways. This is a long writing.

First thing. I already wrote about Tucker Max being my role model. Imagine why I made that decision. Remember the same-old advice: Be your self, and Find your passion. You all heard of this fvcking phrase numerous times and you think "Well great, thats going to fvcking help with my dating world." Well guess what genius, it doesn't help unless this sh!t really goes down in your brain and becomes part of you.

Hearing that sh!t and actually feeling and experiencing the true meanings of that phrase makes a big difference. Just like hearing words and lectures about confidence will NOT bring you your confidence, unless you really experience the spiritual meaning of those phrases, you will not understand.

And Tucker Max is the one that gave the sensible touch of the real meaning behind those phrases.

He says: You got to be what you really wish to be, and you got to be something that you truly believe in and truly want to be. The society tells you to get secure job and bring pay checks to your wife and retire, then die. End of story. It's the Corporate Machine Bull Sh!t. Why am I telling you this? Because every single people in the world has this one passion that he really wishes to accomplish. I have one. I always admired being in the position of power and authority. That is why I am looking onward to become part of FBI, CIA, or military officer. The nursing major I am doing right now is a BULL SH!T that my parents have fed on me. Tucker says you really got to be who you are, not what the universe tells you to be. About myself as a being, I always always wanted to be a bad boy. You can be a smooth talker to get girls, kind and strong guy to get girls, and etc. But I admired being a bad boy. Me in early childhood gave too much of fvck what people thought of me and I always analyzed too much, worried so much that my penis decided to consider departing from my body organ. I am tired of worrying about everything and not being able to be honest with myself, my sexuality, and my life. I am tired of worrying.

That is why I decided to live my life as someone that I really want to be, and die trying. I am ready to die for this, fight for this passion, Because that's what living life is!

In order for you to experience that true meaning, you will have to go through a sh!t load of thinking. I spend a lot of time thinking and thinking and thinking everything such as this. That's it, I am out of here.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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It's-Me

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Good post!

Be yourself and the girls will come naturally. The most important part of attracting women is working on yourself. Like Pook said, you can't completely understand femininity, but you can understand masculinity. Since masculinity attracts femininity... Well you get the point :)
 

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i like your posts keep up the good work money.
 
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