"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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i was wondering if any of you guys on here have come across a girl who has never had a bf. i developed a fondness for this girl of a friend,got number etc. now i asked my friend about her and he says she never mentions a guy as more then a friend and has never brought a guy around him,she isnt a lesbian. she is 17 and im 17 also. she is pretty and i know some one must have made a attempt before me. do any of you have any tips on how to get to her as seeing she has never had a bf?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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That rocks guy... The same principles apply.

I hate to break it to you, but this girl is not the one. Keep that in mind. Now, think of it like this, how would you approach this girl if you knew that she was interested, but she had a big mole on her chin, or something that sticks out. By the sound of things this girl has a great personality, so you are giving her a chance, but you aren't even sure if you want to go out with her... because you're not sure if she REALLY qualifies.

I hope you get the analogy, how would you act if the personality of the girl was the deciding factor. You would test her. You would tease her, see what she's made of. You would have fun, crack jokes, you would be TOO comfortable around her. Talk about everything and anything that comes to mind.

Simply, if you feel yourself being nice, then pinch yourself or something, and STOP it.

May the force be with you.
 
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She probably is LSE.

Take it really slow and date other girls on the side. Be sweet with this girl, no ****y funny CS, I say this because it seems unlikely she is going to play alot of the BS female games. This is truely the type of girl that you can be a "nice guy" with, at least at first. In the meantime just date other girls but always be available for this one as well.
 
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I agree that you have to be alot easier on the low self esteem chicks.

You still have to control the situation, and that is how she will test because you are constantly having to control the situation.
 
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