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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Ice Cold

Master Don Juan

Jun 6, 2004

A new chivalry requires a new sexual credo. I offer the following:

* I am not here to force you to have sex with me.

* I am not in a great rush.

* If you say "no," I will assume you mean "no".

* If you say "thus far, and no further," that far, though no further, I might go.

* You must mean what you say and say plainly what you mean, else you may find yourself alone when what you really wanted might lie somewhere in between.

It's not my advice, but IMO this is gold.
http://www.backlash.com/book/sexcredo.html

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.