"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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This girl who rejected me..

sozzz

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this girl who somewhat rejected me been acting WEIRD lately..

i asked her out she said she got a boyfriend so i back off...

now.. everytime i see her or she see me walk by her.. she'd hide her face or pretend looking down reading a book...

WTF is her problem.. i just wanna be friends now.. but shes avoiding like she think im mad at her.. but its the other way around.. she look like shes uncomfortable if im anywhere near her..
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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LostAndConfused

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spiff said:
yeah just keep clear of her
Yup, because you had the balls to ask her out, she can't use you as an emotional tampon and take advantage of you, knowing darn well that you would have liked her but never had the courage to ask her out. You're gonna have to NEXT her completely. But you did the right thing, better to try and get rejected then to hold yourself in suspense while she ties you in chains. Don't even talk to her anymore. If she develops interest, she'll come to you.
 

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just move on in life, but no need to put forth extra effort in avoiding her, be your own man.
 

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u cant just FORCE friendship on someone who has no respect for u........goddamn
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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