"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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this girl is into me but is older

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hey so im a junior in high school and i don't know how but this hella bomb senior totally wants me but I dont know if its okay to ask out a senior there arent any junior guys going out w/ older girls at my school plus shes like easily top 2 seniors in hotness is it ok for me to mess around with her I think she wants to but I don't know how she would react if I actually did we're hangin out tonight so any tips would be greatly appreciated

please someone say something i really need your help
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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No don't do it that would totally kill your reputation at the school. Having sex with hot older girls is highly frowned upon and will make you look like a total loser. I mean what would people think?
 
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Get out of your head my friend..

you are starting to get Paralysis by Analysis...

Stick to the basics:

3 Main Tests you will face to gain Attraction.

Test 1: Confidence

If you don't have it.. which you are definitely wavering on.. you lose.

Test 2: Playfulness/Humour

This means you have to be a positive light.. something Sticky she can appreciate.

Test 3: The Challenge

If you are too easy, they will throw you a curve or a tantrum and you will kiss her butt.. and fail.

Have unflappable Test 1 even if you screw up.. maintain your coolness.

Be fun to be around.. "Think Fun, Not Outcome" and you will pass Test 2

and stop putting her on a pedestal... she is only a girl.. stop ranking her.. stop thinking about her naked.. she is only a girl..

One that is attracted to you.

Be patient and escalate slowly.
 
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thanks

thanks guys i've been cool about it i just haven't really made a move just flirting so i guess i'll go for it she told me she's a virgin too so that only sweetens the deal thanks
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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