"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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This girl I like, asked me whether to accept a guy!

Fela Kuti

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so now, what should i do to prevent getting LJBF'ed? should i tell her that i can't see her as "just a friend"?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Æquitas

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How about don't tell her about you can't keep seeing her as just a friend?

If you don't want to see her again until she is single and avaiable then it's easy, just avoid her in a natural way.

If you wan't to steal her from your friend and get more of the negative feelings with yourself then go search around, Im sure you will find enough about speed seduction, player and pimp related stuff.

More experienced DJs probably know of other options though.
 

Fela Kuti

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It's getting complicated now as her bf won't talk to me anymore, knowing that i like her. He's accusing me of backstabbing :( Well, maybe he's right :(
 
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