"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This girl has got me confused!

Axcell

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Hey guys, quick question. About 1.5 months ago, there was a girl I really liked and at the time, I did not really come up and tell her that. However, about a week later, she approached me and we started having a conversation. I heard from her friends that she really liked me, thought I was hot, etc - and I knew I was in!
I got her number, we started talking alot, etc. She than told me she liked me, and I made a mistake by telling her I felt the same way? Why? I shall explain below.
I got too attached to her, which completely turned her off. Right before we were going to go in a relationship, she told me, "I am not ready for a relationship."
She told ALL her friends that I liked her (Which is a girl ego thing since I am one of the most popular guys in our friend circle.)
After that conversation we had, we lost out of touch - I started to meet new women, etc. She continually tried to talk to me, but I've been keeping the player attitude to show that I have forgotten about her.
Just yesterday, I found out she got a new boyfriend. How do I talk to her now? I see her about once every week or once every 2 weeks. I need help on this situation because I still like her.
NOTE: This girl is definetly one of those popular, somewhat bratty girls.

Thanks for your time.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I'll tell you a secret - all girls always want a relationship!!!

If she liked you then you did something for her not to like you!!

If you like like a girl then pursue her and look at her response to your pursuit!! Quit floundering about and pursue with a purpose!!!!!
 

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Yeah, but see, I realize what I did for her not to like me. See, I only started reading up on David D material, this forum material, the bible, etc AFTER I made this mistake with the girl. What was the mistake I made? I came out too strong, I showed her I really liked her, and I got too attached to her, and she noticed that! She told one of her friends the EXACT thing. So now, I have acted very distant from her, etc. The truth is I still like her, I really do, but now she has another boyfriend, which emphasizes the fact that she was lying to me when she said, "I am not ready for a relationship right now."

I just want to make sure I am doing the right thing. I do not know what to do once you already have come out too strong to a girl.
When a girl feels like you are being to clingy or too interested, they shut off like light switches.
Most guys make a HUGE mistake when the woman gives some sign of being interested.. they immediately start paying WAY too much attention to her. I just want to know how to deal with that once it has happened.
 
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Sniper001 said:
... but now she has another boyfriend, which emphasizes the fact that she was lying to me when she said, "I am not ready for a relationship right now.".
As I stated kid - All women want "relationships"!!! Yes, even hors. to a certain extent!! She already has experience with you - if she rejected you then she did not like this reality and made a decision to move on. Considering that she already has a "b'f" (i.e. "PIMP") then I suggest you leave her alone!!!
 
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