"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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this girl at lunch

cablecow15

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ok im a seniorthis year and theres a really hott freshman in my lunch she dosent appear to have many friends and sits by herself the first part of lunch what are some good things to say to some one i dont know at all and is younger and u guys think its wrong for a senior to try to date a freshie? what ever u guys have to offer will help :up:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Go up to her and say "need some company?" AND SMILE
Its what i would do, whats the worst thing that can happen?
She says no im waiting for friends
She says yes
She says NO. (bytch)
 

cablecow15

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lol thanx ill try that tommorow we had diffrent lunches today so i dident get a chance to try any thing
 

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JUst wondering how it worked for you cause I'm like in the exact same situation with this girl at my lunch. Always sits on her own listening to her iPod, planning to talk to her on monday if she's there. Just curious what method you used and how it worked out?
 

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go ahead.. if you're just looking to talk.. talk about anything... maybe sports , weather, etc.. there are a million things to talk about.....
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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