"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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This dumb biatch on my job

Fatal Jay

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This chicks hounds me, I mean she is freaking clingy

But whats been so funny she all of a sudden stop hounding me,for one,another co worker and customers been telling her how they have the hots for me

another thing, thischick bought her a used car with rims on it, she thinks she is hot ****, but the thing is th car is used,and she lives on her friends couch, I told her last week she couldn't afford a car that's over ten gs and she bought it anyway

Me and her worked today,and I notice she was still acting funny so I said out the blue,oh you bought the car,and this broad didn't say a word

What's funny I hope she doesn't think she is hot ****,cause for one, those notes,insurance, and interest is going to crush her ass, not to mention the car is used so it has the potential to **** up before she pays it off

What the you guys think about this chick, this girl annoys me all around,especially now
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Warrior74

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Stop talking to her. Ignore her. You're making it into a problem when silence is the solution.
 

sodbuster

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your first mistake is thinking you can tell a woman anything. You only work with her, you aren't her boss...so she won't be asking YOU for a raise to pay for her stupidity. So that isn't your problem. Is she a relative? Someone you are sleeping with? If not, she isn't your problem. WHY do you feel the need to make her one?

I only worry about my employees,close friends and family, and women I am having sex with[don't tell them what to do either, just what I will put up with]. All other women don't really matter.
 

Fatal Jay

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yeah you guys are right I just need to ignore this biatch
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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