"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This chick is confusing

Bling

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I asked her to homecoming. She says yes. (3 weeks before homecoming). She ignores me for 3 weeks. Go to homecoming. Have a good time. Flirting, hand holding, etc. I text her today (Homecoming was Friday) with "Haven't talked to you... how'd you like homecoming" and she hasn't texted back. Wow. I need to move on.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Sounds like she just wanted to go to homecomeing with ya and didnt want you to get the wrong idea by thinking she wanted ya. I think its time to next her.
 

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sometimes texts dont get through. theres a setting on my phone that lets you know if it sent by sending u a message back. or she could just be weird.
 
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