Capt.Jack Sparrow
Master Don Juan
I haven't heard of that one but the hispanics are gonna have a HUGE population by 2050Centaurion said:
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Thinking Of Going to California
- Thread starter thefonz
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
I'll cut in cause I dont want you thinking its gonna be in the 100's if you mive to LA, Orange Co, or Diego. Thats not true. This guy lives in the Valley. Places like Glendale, fontana,Burbank, N. Hollywood is not LA. It's easily 10 degrees hotter out there in a desert type of environment and I hate that chit. LA down to diego it ranges from 70's-to the high 80's usually with a nice cool breeze. And at night its almost chilly to us Californians.
Also San Diego/ Orange Co is more relaxed and chill mentality, as in LA is very high pase and on the grind type of place. You can seriously get paid in LA, as you can in the other cities but in LA the mentaly is kinda more business networking, who are you type of place. Diegos more like just chill, hang out and have a drink, chill at the beach all day mentality.
Also, I agree Please dont come here, please LOL
CGE333
Senior Don Juan
Here is an article from today's USA Today newspaper on San Diego and it's nightlife:
http://www.usatoday.com/travel/destinations/2006-12-14-san-diego_x.htm
http://www.usatoday.com/travel/destinations/2006-12-14-san-diego_x.htm
thefonz
Master Don Juan
Some awesome responses guys
I've heard LA is a business type of town and I'm not really interested in that fast paced loaded traffic enviroment. I'm not an actor or singer and I'm not that flashy with money so i'll pass. Sedona sounds pretty good, but when I think of wine country I worry about too many old folks. San Diego does seem to be where it's at but with all the renovations it's gone under it seems a little pricey for me since I'll be going out there starting at 45K a year. However I am more into that laid-back scene (I've lived in Boston for 24 years, I NEED someplace laid back) and I guess San Diego's good for that. I'll do more research on SD.
I've heard LA is a business type of town and I'm not really interested in that fast paced loaded traffic enviroment. I'm not an actor or singer and I'm not that flashy with money so i'll pass. Sedona sounds pretty good, but when I think of wine country I worry about too many old folks. San Diego does seem to be where it's at but with all the renovations it's gone under it seems a little pricey for me since I'll be going out there starting at 45K a year. However I am more into that laid-back scene (I've lived in Boston for 24 years, I NEED someplace laid back) and I guess San Diego's good for that. I'll do more research on SD.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Abbott
Master Don Juan
California sucks. Out of the fifty states, it'd probably be the last state where I'd want to live. Actually Hawaii would be worse, as you're land-locked, I can't afford a boat, and I hate getting on an airplane (I'd rather drive everywhere, regardless of the distance). Plus even if I could afford a boat I'm not sure if I could stock enough fuel to get from Honolulu to LA.
OK, so I don't live there. But, my father grew up in Bakersfield during the 50s and 60s. In the 70s he attended UCLA, where he met my mother. They both agree that LA is a dirty filthy place. It's also crowded and expensive.
It was in 1981 when he emigrated from CA to Central IL. I visited there with my father in 1994, when his mother was still alive and was living in Inglewood. It didn't seem that great, though I recall that he took me to Disneyland and we were there for 11 hours (I don't want to think how much money he spent on me).
Crowded and expensive? No thanks. As an only child I admit that I like to take up a lot of space.
I'd rather move east or south.
Ben
OK, so I don't live there. But, my father grew up in Bakersfield during the 50s and 60s. In the 70s he attended UCLA, where he met my mother. They both agree that LA is a dirty filthy place. It's also crowded and expensive.
It was in 1981 when he emigrated from CA to Central IL. I visited there with my father in 1994, when his mother was still alive and was living in Inglewood. It didn't seem that great, though I recall that he took me to Disneyland and we were there for 11 hours (I don't want to think how much money he spent on me).
Crowded and expensive? No thanks. As an only child I admit that I like to take up a lot of space.
I'd rather move east or south.
Ben
LA_Chico
Senior Don Juan
yea bro, california is tha best man