"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Thinking of Breaking Up

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This is a rule that applies to every case. If a woman tells you she's crazy and says you haven't seen anything yet or wait til xyz happens. You cannot leave fast enough. There is no gray area here.

The other troubling thing is her fear of sex at 24, which either suggests severe OCD, or past sexual abuse both of which are basically a gigantic gtfo of dodge sign.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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FwoGiZ said:
Consider this a soft next. I hope people know what I mean by soft next.. if you don't I'll explain.
But as long as you get laid, and gets minimal drama, you shouldn't want to end a relationship with a chick. You could see her less often at worst.
In this case, this seems to be quite minimal drama.
Wait couple more days, then pitch in a date as if nothing ever happened. If she asks, say you are over it, and just wanna enjoy good time with her.
Whenever she gives you too much drama, soft next. By drama, I obviously mean stuff that you consider isn't your fault. Try to be objective here, women have a very very hard time doing that and even some man but it should be you who's aware enough. Sometimes you make mistakes, if she gives you drama about it, no need to say anything or explain anything. Just don't do that mistake again. If it's free drama, soft next. Soft next is basically removing the attention you usually give her. It works wonders trust me. If you apply that from the beginning, you can literally be in a near drama free relationship with several and any chick.
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Awesome post, i know what you mean by soft next but i think id rather cut everything off. Maybe i just dont think im emotional rigid to be able to go to that after a 6 month relationship
 
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xstang77 said:
If you've been nc for 4 days and your in a r/s you better end it right away before she does because I can almost guarantee she's gonna dump you when she finally does contact you. the race is on,get to it right away.
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Yeah i know this, but its almost like im scared any contact i make will bring back old feelings after the break or she try and talk me into continue, i would definitely feel better if i walked away on my own terms though
 
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