"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Seriously... an umbrella is a strike these days!
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

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deesade said:
I like this. There isn't enough of this energy about.

I was having a coffee with one of my female cousins the other day. She told me that she was on a date where the guy showed up with an umbrella (it's been pissing it down in England recently). And he sat for a moment thigh over thigh.

He was on thin-ice based on the umbrella, and the thigh thing was the straw, apparantly.

Women are very silly. Attaching life and death importance on one is just completely insane.

Women are a hobby, mate. And there should be something else, some other aspirations or something, to ground you.

One woman doesn't make your life miserable. You were probably using her as a crutch.
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If you sit comfortably you're a man-spreading piece of s***. If you cross your legs you're being a passive little b*tch. And God forbid you take an umbrella outside when it's pouring with rain.

If you want sex on the second date you're a horndog, if you wait you're "not showing passion".

I hate dating sometimes.
 
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deesade said:
I like this. There isn't enough of this energy about.

I was having a coffee with one of my female cousins the other day. She told me that she was on a date where the guy showed up with an umbrella (it's been pissing it down in England recently). And he sat for a moment thigh over thigh.

He was on thin-ice based on the umbrella, and the thigh thing was the straw, apparantly.

Women are very silly. Attaching life and death importance on one is just completely insane.

Women are a hobby, mate. And there should be something else, some other aspirations or something, to ground you.

One woman doesn't make your life miserable. You were probably using her as a crutch.
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no I wasn't using her as a crutch. I really wanted this girl to be a part of my life but my aspergers ruined our relationship. My condition has not only wreaked havoc on my love life but my friendships as well. I have become obsessed with philosophy and self help as a way to cope and adjust. I'm too depressed about my social skills to pursue hobbies and interests. Aspergers has ruined my life and kept me from being the person I want to be
 
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No the relationship didn't run it's course. It was barely given a chance because of my issues
 
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