"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Think for a minute how easy girls have it....

KneghtRyder

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All you have to is SMILE at the GUY YOU want and

JUST....


Spread YOUR LEGS when he approaches your for a DATE!!!

as long as they half way decent looking ....THEY WILL ALWAYS HAVE A PARTNER , NEVER HAVE TO WORRY ABOUT BEING ALONE OR WITHOUT A ****FRIEND .....

They dont have to DEAL WITH REjection or PROJEcTING VALUE or confidence or intelligent conversation like some of us bad looking guys are ...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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DJ4Real

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"Hot" girls have an easier time with most guys which makes us guys look easy to get. It is up to us DJs in practice to not fall into that same category, being that we value and respect ourselves enough to not be like that.

However, your complaining about women having it easy is juvenile for an aspiring DJ.
 

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Kerpal said:
The tables turn quickly once their looks begin to fade.

not until they are like 40 though hehe for the SUPER hot babes

so for a good 30-40 years they are the sex with the upper hand
 

BuckwildNYC

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Yes, you are right, women have it easy when it comes to getting laid. The problem is they don't just want to get laid. They want to be loved and cherished and appreciated and have a man be faithful to them. Any chick can get sex, but how many guys stick around after laying the smackdown on that ass?

Don't ever forget the saying.....women use sex to get love and men use love to get sex. Just as hard as it is for some guys to get a piece of ass.........it's just as hard for a hot girl to find a man who's willing to be with her and only her and cuddle at night looking into her eyes saying how much he loves her.........sh!t I almost vomitted just writing that lol...............
 

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I do not believe woman have it easy... not from where I'm coming from. To think that they could just open their legs for any male trash that comes along, is defying the realities of human nature and the principles of survival of the fitest. Also, such a women is not one I'd ever consider even if she had a paper bag over her head, because the chance of her being hot are rather slim.


Todays women are finding it increasingly difficult to find the right man.... especially when they have disposable income and can support themselves, they will often seek out males of a higher quality. Remember, women are increasingly doing better than males at school and to a larger extent, at university.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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KnyghtRyner, where is info on TGH, or whatever, I pmed you man.


Women have it hard IMO. They can't drive, they can't park, they can get men easy but only average men, it's like us getting a fat chick or an ugly chick. They are afraid of frogs and mice and other small creatures. They can get raped while alone and in the dark. Who wants that...
 

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Very attractive chicks have it easy. Problem is, 95% of girls don't fit into this catagory.

In the long run, it's still more favorable to be a man. Even if you're not born attractive, there are a zillion things to do to improve your attractiveness.

Not to mention, a women's beauty comes with an expiration date.
 

backbreaker

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Kerpal said:
The tables turn quickly once their looks begin to fade.
nail on the head.

if you are taking this time and getting your **** together, you will be in that same position 10 years from now.

Also, I actually feel bad for alot of hot women. My old oneitis, who I over a 6 year period, became really good/somewhat best friends with, because she was born with a crown on her head because of her genes, is not developed mentally, she doesn't work for anything, she isn't very smart because she hasn't had to be, she has no hobbies that are worthwhile... all she can do is resort to is her hotness... and what is sad is, she is actually smart enough to know this and realize this and she hates it. She doesn't like the fact that men around her have no backbone. She doesn't like the fact that other women resent her for no reason other than she is gorgeous. She knows she is hot enough to secure her an AFC husband with a good standard of living, but knows she doesn't bring the entire package to bring home a man who truly has his **** together. She knows she isn't getting any younger.

And just our relationship, she knows that once you get over her "hotness factor" she really has no other cards to play. She's actually pretty insecure. She HAS to have guys tell her how hot she is.
 
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