"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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There's this girl that I like and I need help

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There's this girl name I'm not going to say her name but let just say she's a beauty. Today I decided to put my nerves on the back burner and talk to this girl that I had my eye on for nearly a year and half. Anyway I started off with a simple question like how much did your math book cost. She replied kindly and I got her name also. However, I bailed out like a chicken and didn't even try to ask for her number. The reason I didn't ask her is because, really there is no excuss, (even though I do stutter I should at least see were the conversation will lead to) what do you guys think?:confused:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Today I decided to put my nerves on the back burner and talk to this girl

That's good bro, great job. You probably let your insecurties and fear crawl back up, but that's fine, don't sweat it. Approach more girls now, make small talk and your confidence will slowly build on it's own. Pretty soon you'll be getting numbers with little or no effort. Keep it up!
 
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Dude,

So it has taken you 1.5 years to work up the courage to talk to this girl where it should have taken 3 seconds.

"How much did your math book cost" is the type of question that will most likely get a one worded answer. Why do you care how much her book cost???

If you have known her for 1.5 years, surely you know a little about her. Her interests, where she hangs out, what she studies, etc... Come on!!! you can do better than that!

The trouble is that you are looking for a quick and easy way of getting this chick. Well there are no shortcuts in this game my man. I am not sure how much you have read up on this site, but you only have 16 posts to your name. So my guess is that your "game" isn't so advanced.

It is natural to feel the way you do. Nervous. You dont know what to do. A slight one-itis situation, and so on and so on...

Some of the guys on this forum who you see picking up women on demand and f-closing very hot HBs on a regular basis were in your shoes one day. Read the bible, go out and talk to women! Practice, practice, practice!!!

Then you wont even be asking us what you SHOULD be doing, but telling us how you manage to sweep her off her feet without breaking a sweat!
 
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