Theres no way i could get a girl.

[NotaNewbie]

I'm confident, Funny, Good looking, and have a lot of swag but I'm poor and i don't have status or money, I'm in high school and every time i see hot broads walking around, they're always with the "cool" guys and the guys with money/cars. I'm only 18 and I'm job less my parents are immigrants that make hardly 30 grand a year (together btw). I'm a very confident guy I'm pretty sure i could approach a girl and get her number but the only thing I'm afraid of is if she gets to know me better she'll find out I'm a bum and have nothin to gain if she stays with me. If anyone have advice and could help me out let me know.

 

[yama600rr]

dude, youre 18 years old, girls your age dont care about money just yet, they just wanna have fun! if you're what you say you are, good looking,confident and funny, then you should have no problem landing a chick. you just have to get pass the poor thing... everyone youre age is poor!

 

[NickSCFC2000]

You're 18, girls your age don't care if you haven't got a penny to your name!

" I'm afraid of is if she gets to know me better she'll find out I'm a bum and have nothin to gain if she stays."

You do even have the slightest clue about girls? Half of them chase after poor bums to look after, why do guys assume all girls are after the same thing. They're just as varied as men!

 

[ChapStick]

You're jobless? Get a job then brah. Don't do it to get girls.. Do it because you want to better yourself. If your parents just make 30k/year, then you should be getting a job to help yourself get into college or whatever.

I've been working since I was 16 and I feel great about it. At least I know that if I were to be suddenly put out to live on my own, I would be able to survive somehow... It's a comforting feeling... Pluss the feeling of being able to buy things and knowing that YOU earned whatever you are buying is another great feeling!

Summer is coming, so I suggest you get out there and find some kind of work! The girls will come on their own... You will be focused on your job and your life and will be too busy for women.. Strangely, this is when you will find yourself surrounded by more women attracted to you (when you're unavailable).

 

[Mavrick]

With that "I can't" and "I won't" attitude, you're absolutely right. You've fulfilled your own self prophecy. Give yourself a hand.

 

[BadsnakeUK]

If you had money, what would be your excuse for not getting women? You can keep making excuses or start putting some effort into developing your game. The two are mutually exclusive.

 

[Bible_Belt]

My parents were as poor as the op's, and we weren't even immigrants. Hell, we were even white...and tall. There were no excuses to be had. Every minority in the world gets help, except for the native White Trash. If 'The Man' was keeping anyone down, I did not see him doing it from my trailer.

I've been broke and had money, too. With that perspective, I can tell you that much of the fun in life can be had for nearly free. When you have nothing, it looks like all of the doors that money opens will lead to happiness, but it is not that easy. It is just a different set of problems.

Get a job, work hard like your parents and be grateful for the opportunity they have given you to be here. Who you are is not defined by any woman or friend; it's all you and the choices you make in life. Make the right choices to build an exciting and rewarding life, and the women will come.

 

[Mavrick]

man, it's funny. I've got money for days....

But my height, sometimes my looks, that's what I hate....see, we all got some reason to disqualify our selves from the game. But we're human. We're imperfect.

Pathetic

 

[Killer_Demo]

damn i feel for the OP...i remember in highschool at lunch we had open campus which meant we could leave school to go eat and i had to walk EVERYDAY for 4 years....everybody knew i was poor too.....doesnt matter OP keep your head up

 

[DonGorgon]

Being broke affects self esteme negatively in a capitalist world... younger and younger girls are becoming slaves to money very early on hence why you see so many 18 to 21 year olds dating 45 year olds.

 

[Miguel]

Man guys, this whole thread sounds like nothing but self whiny *****es. man, talk about a group of Ah Ef Sees! Look dudes, the bottom line is for some people high school really sucks. It did for me, and I didn't get laid until this YEAR (Shhhhh, don't tell anyone.) but the deal is simple, if you keep whining that looks matter, or your poor, or you don't have a big enough dong... Then get out and do something about it.

Get a job and buy some REAL NICE jeans and shirts, not many, just a couple for a little cash and keep em mint. Theirs a link to a styles page on this site, check it out. Next work out a bit, I don't care what anyone says, being out of shape is NOT attractive. The bottom line is, don't become mr. muscles, but avoid being mr. flabs unless you bring something else awsome to the table to make up for it. And jeeze man, whoever gave a **** about being poor? (I'm pretty well off, and many of my friends are what you would call poor.) Girls and guys don't think about the wealth as long as the other person LOOKS like they've got the other sections of their life in order.

Man, but overal, life is what you make it... if your not happy with your high school life, switch schools and create a new image when you start all over. it's hard, but completely worth while.

 

[MooseGod]

If it was that damn hard to get a girl then there wouldn't be 6+ billion people in the world. Forget looks for the most part. Dress up when you go to the club, wear jeans and a t-shirt the rest of the time, work out if you're self conscious about your body, and remember...it's all about the ATTITUDE!!!