"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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there AINT any great women.

metoo

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without a hubby, daddy or boyfriend CREATING them. They don't know how and don't think they should HAVE to put out the work needed to become worth a hoot. That's why I say to get a young Filipina and train her to be what you want. To avoid having to return to the sewer she came from, she will put up with any reasonable training program, even act very much as if she LIKES it. :) That's all I ask/expect of any woman, is that she put on a GOOD act, for a few years. Even just that is more than 99% of US women can bother with. The 1% have 100 men hanging around them, too.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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LOL. Only desperate guys would accept anything that came from a sewer.

You want a woman that will put on an act, that is all you are going to get, and she'll be taking another guys **** as fast as she can find one that isn't as big a loser as you are.
 

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You're kidding right?

I seriously just read your post and said out loud, "WHAT THE FVCK?" Come at me bro.
 

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AllJackedUp said:
I seriously just read your post and said out loud, "WHAT THE FVCK?" Come at me bro.

LOL. The OP may act pathetic, he may look pathetic, but don't let that fool you, he really is pathetic.
 
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