backbreaker
Master Don Juan
GF picked it up at the store, the entire series she thought i would like it, i have never seen it. started watching it last night, my god why did they stop making this show, this is addicting.
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
I don't think the sopranos ran long enough. I wanted to see the hot daughter grow up and become a lawyer and I wanted to see what AJ was going to do with his life. But I do agree that the whole NY/NJ mob going against each other had gotten kinda stale.Iceberg said:It's a great show.
One of the few that HBO actually ran long enough to complete its story arch. And ended early enough to still have its artistic credibility (instead of squeezing extra seasons out of it for the money, like they did with Sopranos).
The series actually ended because the creators felt they told Baltimore's story well enough to call it quits. Gotta respect that.
If you just started watching it, you better avoid this thread. Never know when someone's gonna drop a spoiler on you.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Did you see the entire series or are u still at the beginning? dont wanna spoiler anything in the second case.backbreaker said:I don't care for stringer too much. he's not stupid but he is not very loyal and he doesn't have that real ruthless streak from what I see. He's the definition of someone's CFO