"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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The way of the tease

Don_Jon

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After examining this site and its articles and what not for quite a while, the thing that I have picked up on is the art of teasing. Teasing however can be takin too far. When every other word that comes outta your mouth is a tease on her...you can become real annoying real quick.

Keep in mind also there is a HUGE difference between a tease and insult. Insulting a woman will get you a slap in the face and the closet thing she can throw. Teasing will get you laughs, and show at the same time show your confident and not intimmidated by her.

When teasing, call them out on somethin small they may do or how they act.

For example: lets say your telling a joke, but the girl doesnt get it right away...you could follow up and say "well you're about as sharp as a butter knife" or sumthin to that effect. Call them out on it.

Besides if they can't laugh at themselves every now and then, they probably aren't worth your time.

Hope it helps, just sumthin to keep in the back your head.

Don_Jon
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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