military chicks
This is for all you veterans out there, literally! Even if you are not in the military, you should be very cautious of military chicks. Most of these girls are not by any means HBs. But do not let this fool you, most of these women have seen about every weapon in a guys arsenal, they get approached all day long by stupid AFCs and therefore you must treat them like you would treat a HB9 or HB10. Imagine if the tables were turned and the female ratio for a guy was 10 to 1. You would reign supreme! This is what kind of odds we are up against. I will reiterate one thing that has been mentioned here many times-chicks are always smarter than us at games, and this my friend will never change. They do it with men, each other, their moms, anyone who has some degree of control in their lives. Remember Cleopatra? Same thing, we cannot let ourselves be pursueded and controlled by women. As you may have noticed, many military girls will test married men or men that have some kind of authority in the workplace. These women generally have low self-esteem and if you talk to some of them, you will find that they do not have very good relations with their fathers (stereotypical I know, but its true). Now lets explore a scenario that will convey what I am saying here. This is a veteran women player at work. Based on a true story....
You are working with a military girl. You first scan her and gather up your first impressions of this girl. Just for kicks lets call this girl Amy. Amy appears to be outgoing, kind of ditsy and has a country accent. She says she likes to read mystery novels and is interested in working for the CIA someday. She says her favorite movie is the game You sense shes not really that smart and she would be a good candidate for some field practice. You notice Amy does not really have a high IL in you though.
NOTE TO SELF: This would be a good time to change your mind about pursueing this women and also reconsider using this female as a field study. Any sudden surge in IL, is an early warning of what trouble is soon to come. She is not into you and is either playing you, wants to hang your balls on a clothes line (sexual harassment), or wants something that you have. If you keep trying after a low IL, you might want to read on.
CAUTION: If the girl is in a LTR and has been for awhile, DO NOT PLAY GAMES. I REPEAT FIND AN EASIER TARGET. She will maintain a heathy relastionship with her other and you will never notice her having any problems with her boyfriend. When she talks on the phone, she will say " I love you" and "do you want me to bring home dinner" or something to this effect. These are all red flags, this girl will NEVER come to you and you could NEVER trust her and therefore, can be considered a female player. Or as we call it ATTENTION *****!!
You are basically none existent to Amy and their doesnt seem to be any chemistry going on. Lets say her interest is 25% in you. You are wondering why this is so low and you want to put some of the skills you learned from sosuave.net to the test. Couldnt hurt right? You start by being friendly to her, asking her questions, getting some background info on her, ect.. You are basically building rapport. After establshing some kind of foundation, you begin with the c&f, teasing, neg hits, and so forth. You are starting to feel like you are gradually disarming this attractive women. Then you start to lay low with her a bit and start using natures' gravitational force to sway the tides. this is where you bring out the man in yourself. Do not let her lead you into anything. Do what you want at this point and go about your business. You start giving her subtle and unique compliments and at this point she always laughs at your jokes, smiles at you, and is always in close proximity to you. She may initiate some form of kino. This is were she starts to test you. You will start to gradually appear on her radar because you are now in the "potential real man category" SIDE NOTE: if she starts to play at this point, she is already aware that you have inside knowledge of the game. Either her or her friends are aware of this knowledge and have probably been reading this website. Without much further ado, let the games begin...
1. She will in some way shape or form ask you if you like her or if she is your friend. If you resist and play aloof she will constantly be seeking your approval of her.
2. She will give subtle clues that you are a good man. For ex., saying things like your girlfriend/wife must be cool caz she is with you. Also, if you have been in an LTR for along time she will try to compliment your integrity. If you are both in LTRs, she will sometimes refer to future plans that you guys should go out as couples.
3. If she never wore makeup or perfume around you before, she will now all of sudden start to look and smell good. You will notice things like her always having to chew gum around you all the time and she will be on her best behavior and don her lady-like fascade.
4.You will start hearing about all of her personal problems. At this point you should only have to nod and smile and just let her diarreah keep spewing from her mouth.
5. If you do not act AFC at this point, she will throw out little tid bits of frustration every now and then. For ex., she is wearing something really sexy and starts talking about her body. She says subtle things like- since I have put on a little weight my breast have gotten bigger or something to that effect. Now if you act like you dont care she will start subtle signs of frustration. This could be anything from sarcastic good-byes to very direct insults. Here is an example of a direct insult when the female player is getting frustrated:
Her: "you are just like this person I used to know"
you: "what are you talking about? you dont even really know me.
Her: In a direct and frustrated voice. " I dont really want to know you"
you: "haha, what if im a serial killer?"
her: "whatever"
Now in this regard you must not take her hostility in any personal way. You must remain CCC; calm, cool, and collective at all times. This will frustrate her even more and make her realize that you are not buying into her tests. She will start to worry about her rusty game at this point and she WILL start to take this rejection to heart. If you have ventured down this path already, you know its a dead end. Even if the girl now decides she wants you because you are strong minded, you can never truly trust a girl like this.
The signs were all there from her career interests, having a LTR, to her favorite movie, The Game and her favorite book, The DaVinci Code. Dont be blinded by ONS. What happened in this tragic story, was that-a player was playing a player. Sometimes we have to be Mr. Sherlock fvcking Holmes himself. Make notes and put two and two together. Emotions can be severely blinding or (mental masturbation) And it will destroy a good work relastionship, possibly a marriage/family, or a career. We must be more cynical of these biitches. Girls live for playing games, especially when they have:
-Low self esteem
-a motive
-attention issues
Females are now seeking our secrets and they are catching on, so the game will eventually have to change somewhat. We ineviably have the lower hand in nature because of our wiring. So we must not let women munipulate us because we lust after their bodies. We need to set higher standards for ourselves. Lets create a new benchmark by the way we are measured.
This is for all you veterans out there, literally! Even if you are not in the military, you should be very cautious of military chicks. Most of these girls are not by any means HBs. But do not let this fool you, most of these women have seen about every weapon in a guys arsenal, they get approached all day long by stupid AFCs and therefore you must treat them like you would treat a HB9 or HB10. Imagine if the tables were turned and the female ratio for a guy was 10 to 1. You would reign supreme! This is what kind of odds we are up against. I will reiterate one thing that has been mentioned here many times-chicks are always smarter than us at games, and this my friend will never change. They do it with men, each other, their moms, anyone who has some degree of control in their lives. Remember Cleopatra? Same thing, we cannot let ourselves be pursueded and controlled by women. As you may have noticed, many military girls will test married men or men that have some kind of authority in the workplace. These women generally have low self-esteem and if you talk to some of them, you will find that they do not have very good relations with their fathers (stereotypical I know, but its true). Now lets explore a scenario that will convey what I am saying here. This is a veteran women player at work. Based on a true story....
You are working with a military girl. You first scan her and gather up your first impressions of this girl. Just for kicks lets call this girl Amy. Amy appears to be outgoing, kind of ditsy and has a country accent. She says she likes to read mystery novels and is interested in working for the CIA someday. She says her favorite movie is the game You sense shes not really that smart and she would be a good candidate for some field practice. You notice Amy does not really have a high IL in you though.
NOTE TO SELF: This would be a good time to change your mind about pursueing this women and also reconsider using this female as a field study. Any sudden surge in IL, is an early warning of what trouble is soon to come. She is not into you and is either playing you, wants to hang your balls on a clothes line (sexual harassment), or wants something that you have. If you keep trying after a low IL, you might want to read on.
CAUTION: If the girl is in a LTR and has been for awhile, DO NOT PLAY GAMES. I REPEAT FIND AN EASIER TARGET. She will maintain a heathy relastionship with her other and you will never notice her having any problems with her boyfriend. When she talks on the phone, she will say " I love you" and "do you want me to bring home dinner" or something to this effect. These are all red flags, this girl will NEVER come to you and you could NEVER trust her and therefore, can be considered a female player. Or as we call it ATTENTION *****!!
You are basically none existent to Amy and their doesnt seem to be any chemistry going on. Lets say her interest is 25% in you. You are wondering why this is so low and you want to put some of the skills you learned from sosuave.net to the test. Couldnt hurt right? You start by being friendly to her, asking her questions, getting some background info on her, ect.. You are basically building rapport. After establshing some kind of foundation, you begin with the c&f, teasing, neg hits, and so forth. You are starting to feel like you are gradually disarming this attractive women. Then you start to lay low with her a bit and start using natures' gravitational force to sway the tides. this is where you bring out the man in yourself. Do not let her lead you into anything. Do what you want at this point and go about your business. You start giving her subtle and unique compliments and at this point she always laughs at your jokes, smiles at you, and is always in close proximity to you. She may initiate some form of kino. This is were she starts to test you. You will start to gradually appear on her radar because you are now in the "potential real man category" SIDE NOTE: if she starts to play at this point, she is already aware that you have inside knowledge of the game. Either her or her friends are aware of this knowledge and have probably been reading this website. Without much further ado, let the games begin...
1. She will in some way shape or form ask you if you like her or if she is your friend. If you resist and play aloof she will constantly be seeking your approval of her.
2. She will give subtle clues that you are a good man. For ex., saying things like your girlfriend/wife must be cool caz she is with you. Also, if you have been in an LTR for along time she will try to compliment your integrity. If you are both in LTRs, she will sometimes refer to future plans that you guys should go out as couples.
3. If she never wore makeup or perfume around you before, she will now all of sudden start to look and smell good. You will notice things like her always having to chew gum around you all the time and she will be on her best behavior and don her lady-like fascade.
4.You will start hearing about all of her personal problems. At this point you should only have to nod and smile and just let her diarreah keep spewing from her mouth.
5. If you do not act AFC at this point, she will throw out little tid bits of frustration every now and then. For ex., she is wearing something really sexy and starts talking about her body. She says subtle things like- since I have put on a little weight my breast have gotten bigger or something to that effect. Now if you act like you dont care she will start subtle signs of frustration. This could be anything from sarcastic good-byes to very direct insults. Here is an example of a direct insult when the female player is getting frustrated:
Her: "you are just like this person I used to know"
you: "what are you talking about? you dont even really know me.
Her: In a direct and frustrated voice. " I dont really want to know you"
you: "haha, what if im a serial killer?"
her: "whatever"
Now in this regard you must not take her hostility in any personal way. You must remain CCC; calm, cool, and collective at all times. This will frustrate her even more and make her realize that you are not buying into her tests. She will start to worry about her rusty game at this point and she WILL start to take this rejection to heart. If you have ventured down this path already, you know its a dead end. Even if the girl now decides she wants you because you are strong minded, you can never truly trust a girl like this.
The signs were all there from her career interests, having a LTR, to her favorite movie, The Game and her favorite book, The DaVinci Code. Dont be blinded by ONS. What happened in this tragic story, was that-a player was playing a player. Sometimes we have to be Mr. Sherlock fvcking Holmes himself. Make notes and put two and two together. Emotions can be severely blinding or (mental masturbation) And it will destroy a good work relastionship, possibly a marriage/family, or a career. We must be more cynical of these biitches. Girls live for playing games, especially when they have:
-Low self esteem
-a motive
-attention issues
Females are now seeking our secrets and they are catching on, so the game will eventually have to change somewhat. We ineviably have the lower hand in nature because of our wiring. So we must not let women munipulate us because we lust after their bodies. We need to set higher standards for ourselves. Lets create a new benchmark by the way we are measured.
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