"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The Universal Opener !at Last

ALPHAROMEO

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go out on the street
jump on the first woman you see ( a woman who looks hot enough )
" i m in a hurry could you help me find who sang those two songs "? my lesson is 15 MINUTES "
" next what s your favorite radio station ? ( " 3 THOSE qS WERE GIVEN TO ME BY OUR LANGUAGE TEACHER")

" last Q if u don t mind
" you ve been invited to the MAURY POVITCH show by a n UNKNOWN PERSON might be a lover bla BLA would you go?


NEG HER A COUPLE OF TIMES ( you have a country accent are you here to sell butter ?

NOW THANK HER FOR HER AWESOME HELP EXCHANGE DIGITS ( re STYLE CHAPTER 20 THE RULES OF THE GAME



learn the above by heart
that s your universal opener you can use in any context
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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zekko

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you have a country accent are you here to sell butter ?
Lol. Love that neg.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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