"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Unforgivable Sin: Failure to Physically Escalate

ChalengeGuyFan

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This is a quote from my favorite movie, Zorba the Greek:
"God has a very big heart; but there is one sin He will not forgive: if a woman calls a man to her bed and he will not go!"

And the more practical version for us men:
Women could like you even if you make stupid mistakes; but there is one thing that will draw her away from you: if you both desire each other but you are too nervous to escalate!
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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good post! i like that quote and the way you tied it to relationships.
 
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