"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Ultimate Boyfriend Destroyer

slickaz

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no no..get this.
you DONT take ANOTHER mans GIRL!.
Keywords: ANOTHER MAN'S GIRL..

didnt you just read what Kx and Supreme had to say.

Besides, plz tell me you dont actually believe there is a limited supply of HOTT single women. Everytime i go out i get to know beautiful voluptuous SINGLE women. and that is Sydney! Australia! Imagine what it would be like in New York or London!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Kal0051

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slickaz said:
no no..get this.
you DONT take ANOTHER mans GIRL!.
Keywords: ANOTHER MAN'S GIRL..

didnt you just read what Kx and Supreme had to say.

Besides, plz tell me you dont actually believe there is a limited supply of HOTT single women. Everytime i go out i get to know beautiful voluptuous SINGLE women. and that is Sydney! Australia! Imagine what it would be like in New York or London!
yeah it's too bad the majority of us don't live in huge cities like New York or London. Where I live I can go a week or two without meeting a hot single girl. Mind you that doesn't mean I run around trying to **** taken girls (unless they express interest first), it just means that I don't get laid a lot. The next time I'll get laid won't be for a month or so when I go visit one of my friends in another city (he's claiming to have a slut waiting for me when I get there).
 

Unbridled_Phoenix

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Yeah the (lack of) selection of hot slvts is the only drawback to rural life for me.
 

Kal0051

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Unbridled_Phoenix said:
Yeah the (lack of) selection of hot slvts is the only drawback to rural life for me.
well I don't live in a rural area but lots of girls around here have boyfriends for the sake of having a boyfriend. For instance, lets say I approach 4 girls, at least two of them will have boyfriends.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Willis

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I never want to take a mans woman and try and make her mine...

i jus want her so i can get my rocks off...Then when thats done he can have his wifey back...
 

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All females have boyfriends if they don't like you... If they do like you, they typically just forget to mention that fact. Every girl I'm Fing right now has a boyfriend or two-- I have even had one show up at my door to pick her up afterwards (because she was just hanging out with her 'friend' duffdog) LOL! I think that the real myth is that there are "quality" women. "Quality" just means she is better at lying to you than you are at picking up on it.

When I was younger, I had a saying: "All the good ones are taken, if you want a good one, you have to take her from someone else" That axiom has held true most of the time. If you think about it, why would a super attractive female be single unless she has some severe problem she is hiding?

Same story with guys-- why are guys on this site single? They lack the qualities that the females truly want! Duh... If they did not lack them, they would not be single.
 
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