"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The Truth About Confidence

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Iguana

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Originally posted by Iguana

I want to recommend a book for building TRUE confidence:

The 7 Habits Of Highly Effective People by Stephen Covey

Believe me, that book is the Bible of Self-Improvement. It focuses on character and not personality, meaning a change from the inside and really who you are and your values rather than techniques and quick fixes.

You can find it at Limewire or Emule. I printed it, it's a must read for anyone interested in improving his/her life.

Iguana
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I want to bump THAT POST.
 
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