"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The True Inner Light

strams4ever

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I have always thought this way but I have decided to share this with all of you. There is more to life than girls. This may sound stupid at first but think back to all the times in the past you have gone head over heels for a girl, or became totaly obcessed with one girl, or thought you need to get a girlfriend.

Earlier tonight when the Texas sun was setting (yes the sun does look better in Texas than anywhere else) I was just walking down a bike path through a nature preserve playing my acoustic guitar and realized, I am happier playing a Jackson RR5 than hanging out with a hot girl. Once again I am not gay, I have just come to realize that puzzy is a phonecall away.

Girls arn't a huge part of my life. Some guys its there mission to go get laid. You get ALOT more action if you plan on not getting laid, or at least ACT like It's not your mission. ;)

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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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floydtheater07

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You said it buddy. I think the reason so many guys dedicate far too much attention to girls is pretty simple though: we are human, and have developed natural desires.


But there is a lot more out there. And anyway, I find it much easier to get girls when I don't seem to care so much about them.
 

08aisaac

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This is so true. While you might like hooking up with girls, and all that jazz, you should try and actually live life.
 
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