The trick to getting her to your place!

[pickmasterjd]

Hey, new here and this is a cool forum. I have been picking up chicks for a long time and id love to share some of my advice and techniques.

As far as getting a girl back to your house/apartment after the first date there a TON of things you can do that will increase the percentage of this happening other than the typical "so, do you want to get coffee or something".

Try these things this weekend and let me know how it goes...

First, have her park at your place and offer to drive her there. Just tell her it would be easier if she met at your place then briefly invite her in while you 'get your coat' so she warms up to the vicinity. Making her park her car there will force her to come back with you so half of the job is already done.

After the date is done, tell her that you 'need to get up early tomorrow' but she should come in for a second to see that cd collection or something you mentioned during your interaction. The key is to stress that you need to get up early and not to set up any alarm bells.

Once inside, continue to make her confortable and tell her to have a seat while you get it. From there, just continue to build comfort and rapport with conversation and it is yours. The key is never to 'ask' her to come in, but assume the sale and tell her "hey, you should park your car at my place so it is easier to get to" or "you should come in for a sec to see this"

hope this helps.. if you have any more questions feel free to PM me or check out more tips in my profile section :rockon:

 

[Htienvu]

Good advice, assuming she drives and has high interest.

 

[TheMale]

Good advice, assuming she drives and has high interest.

+1

do you guys think that the line from the movie 'crazy stupid love' is actually working ?
i mean that line: 'hey lets get outta here/let's go to my place' ???

 

[bigneil]

If a woman has high interest level, she will eventually come to your house, but don't push it. Women are mainly concerned you might harm them and really need to trust you. When they do, don't pounce on them. If you don't try anything, they will want you to.

On her second visit (your fourth date or so), you should have the place sparkling clean, make her dinner, and serve wine, play music, have a DVD to watch. Or throw a curve at her and take her out for a drink after.

 

[Aaron B]

i've had great success with david deangelo's trick:

have her meet you at your apartment, then go on the date

when the date ends and you get back to your apartment, say something like

"ok, you can come up, but just for a minute"

since we're men we think this would never work, but as long as you act like it's normal and lead the way she will follow

 

[shizz702]

I will definitely vouche for having her park at your place. Plus it makes things better by going on the date together rather than meeting there.

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

Maybe I'm too young. But I invite girls to the crib off the bat to watch a movie. If she is down to get some coffee with you wouldn't she be down to watch a movie at your place?

 

[pdx1138]

If she is down to get some coffee with you wouldn't she be down to watch a movie at your place?

not necessarily.

some women (30's or older especially) would like to know you more before doing that.

 

[Johnnyventana]

Who even has a "CD Collection?"

 

[TheMale]

some women (30's or older especially) would like to know you more before doing that.

not necessarily too.
women in the 30's or older are women who knows what they want. so if she want sex she's not gonna go in circle to have sex, she'll find the first attractive MAN , do the date thing (after all she dont wanna feel slut) but after that it's SEX.

for my part i had 2 chicks in the 30's (one actually was 29) and a friend of mine confirm the same thing i said earlier.

but you dont think a direct approach will work like i said in a earlier post 'let's go to my place' (with affirmation and not question) ??