"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The Superhero Aura

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You don't need to be some mega-smooth, 200 IQ, svelt, built, millionairre, charming mofo to be successful (with girls and Life in general!).

You guys make it out to seem like getting girls is nuclear physics. Anything less than a James Bond won't do the trick...

Bull testicles!

I consider myself an "Average" guy, in the sense that I have loads of friends that are more charming, more funny, more manly, better looking, and more intelligent than me. But I'm doing fine! I love my life!

After reading parts of the "DJ bible," I began to seriously wonder...

"How the HELL did I end up with a girlfriend?"

I wasn't being "man" enough, wasn't romantic enough, didn't convey my "sexuality" enough, etc.etc. According to your "Bible," I should've broken up 6 months ago!

But alas, here I am, happy as ever.

Your life is as hard as you believe it to be. So if you think you need to be Superman to even get a girl to TALK to you, then so be it! You'll reject yourself even before the girl takes a look at you.

To be honest, I think girls WANT to like you- they really do! You just need to give them the oppurtunity to do so.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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