Curious if others have tried and had success with the following type of approach:
Was sitting in an eccentric French funk bar in Atlanta one night when a HB10 walks in. Considering the type of place she had done an excellent job in separating herself from the crowd. She was very tall.. prob 5-11 and with an unreal physique (Thin but with great curves) and sense of style. . She was with 2 men and another women. She walked straight to the back of the club sat against the wall and within about 30 minutes id say she had been approached probably 4 times and now had 4 men (2 she came with and two others who had approached separately) around her and her friend talking to one of them and the guys all taking turns politely vying for her time and butting in on each other to get her attention (At least that is how it looked, I couldn't actually hear anything from where I was).
I could tell this was going to take some doing knowing that the guys were all gaming her and the fact that there was literally no physical room to enter the set I was kind of stumped. The bar/club is not ideal for meets as its small, packed, loud and has a lot of seating to navigate around.
I decided to walk over and enter the set and work it out on the way without giving myself time to talk myself out of it or get distracted. By the time I reached the set I had come up with a tac but it was completely unorthodox and I had no idea if it would work. My primary objective was to get her away from the set and THEN start the standard practice. I got to the group and just acted like I knew her... telling guys to let me in. When I finally got to her she was listening intently to one of the guys who had crouched down beside her and was apparently blathering on with what I could only call some kind of full on filibuster game. She looked up but he just kept on talking. I put my hand on his shoulder and he immediately stopped talking and just looked at me. I never took my eyes off of her. I leaned over slightly as she was sitting down and said "Excuse me but when you are done I'd like to have a word with you. Ill be sitting right there" and pointed to my seat through all the people. I didn't wait for a response, confirmation nothing I just turned around and walked away. I could hear silence. I was actually laughing to myself because she just looked stunned.
Within about 15 minutes she was sitting with me alone at my table. She was curious who the hell I was and said I had some serious balls. Because of the strong intro I had broken some serous rules and needed to pull back after showing so much interest. I quickly apologized but explained that I wanted to talk to her and with all the heat she was getting there was no way she could get a break unless I did something. I spoke very sincerely and very casually like I was with an old friend. I kept the conversation going but turned my body away from her and started up a natural interaction...So tell me about yourself?... and she started selling herself immediately. After about 5 minutes I asked her to come with me so we could talk in quiet on the back patio of the bar and explained that I knew she had friends and needed to get back to them but that we should get to know each other-
She had already told me that she worked with children and was interested in social work so when we got to the patio I mentioned some social activist stuff I had done and some of my interests that mirrored her bent. Ultimately I got her number, chatted some more and set up a sunday brunch. I dated this woman for months and she always remembered that night (and several others ha ha).
I have done this type of introduction several times when the situation just seems impossible. I am by nature an extremely tranquill person- I don't fidgit, I talk slowly, I look people in the eye. So this type of direct hit arrow to the sternum approach works for me on the rare occasion that I use it. Anyone else have similar?
Was sitting in an eccentric French funk bar in Atlanta one night when a HB10 walks in. Considering the type of place she had done an excellent job in separating herself from the crowd. She was very tall.. prob 5-11 and with an unreal physique (Thin but with great curves) and sense of style. . She was with 2 men and another women. She walked straight to the back of the club sat against the wall and within about 30 minutes id say she had been approached probably 4 times and now had 4 men (2 she came with and two others who had approached separately) around her and her friend talking to one of them and the guys all taking turns politely vying for her time and butting in on each other to get her attention (At least that is how it looked, I couldn't actually hear anything from where I was).
I could tell this was going to take some doing knowing that the guys were all gaming her and the fact that there was literally no physical room to enter the set I was kind of stumped. The bar/club is not ideal for meets as its small, packed, loud and has a lot of seating to navigate around.
I decided to walk over and enter the set and work it out on the way without giving myself time to talk myself out of it or get distracted. By the time I reached the set I had come up with a tac but it was completely unorthodox and I had no idea if it would work. My primary objective was to get her away from the set and THEN start the standard practice. I got to the group and just acted like I knew her... telling guys to let me in. When I finally got to her she was listening intently to one of the guys who had crouched down beside her and was apparently blathering on with what I could only call some kind of full on filibuster game. She looked up but he just kept on talking. I put my hand on his shoulder and he immediately stopped talking and just looked at me. I never took my eyes off of her. I leaned over slightly as she was sitting down and said "Excuse me but when you are done I'd like to have a word with you. Ill be sitting right there" and pointed to my seat through all the people. I didn't wait for a response, confirmation nothing I just turned around and walked away. I could hear silence. I was actually laughing to myself because she just looked stunned.
Within about 15 minutes she was sitting with me alone at my table. She was curious who the hell I was and said I had some serious balls. Because of the strong intro I had broken some serous rules and needed to pull back after showing so much interest. I quickly apologized but explained that I wanted to talk to her and with all the heat she was getting there was no way she could get a break unless I did something. I spoke very sincerely and very casually like I was with an old friend. I kept the conversation going but turned my body away from her and started up a natural interaction...So tell me about yourself?... and she started selling herself immediately. After about 5 minutes I asked her to come with me so we could talk in quiet on the back patio of the bar and explained that I knew she had friends and needed to get back to them but that we should get to know each other-
She had already told me that she worked with children and was interested in social work so when we got to the patio I mentioned some social activist stuff I had done and some of my interests that mirrored her bent. Ultimately I got her number, chatted some more and set up a sunday brunch. I dated this woman for months and she always remembered that night (and several others ha ha).
I have done this type of introduction several times when the situation just seems impossible. I am by nature an extremely tranquill person- I don't fidgit, I talk slowly, I look people in the eye. So this type of direct hit arrow to the sternum approach works for me on the rare occasion that I use it. Anyone else have similar?