Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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The significance of the "Mix Tape"?

RogueWarrior

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Okay, so for you "Lost" fans out there, a few weeks ago there was an interaction between Sawyer and Kate involving the nature of their relationship. Sawyer says "So, what? Should I make you a mix tape?"

And then a girl I'm interested in gives me one.

I have no idea if she's a Lost fan or not...not something we talk about. So does this gesture have any significance beyond it being a thoughtful gift?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Wyldfire

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It only means that you are thinking too much.
 

joekerr31

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first LOST is an awesome show. i stopped watching for a season but am back watching again. didn't like the finale much, but the season was great.

second, are you a mature man? if you are 16 getting a mixed tape is different than if you are 30!

assuming you are 25+ and so is she, the mix tape is her way of telling you that she likes you. dont do the afc thing and rush in and ask her out. just start finding reasons for you two to hang out a bit more and eventually she will move in to kiss you. or at the very least give you all the signs that she wants more.

oh, and btw, when sawyer made the mixed tape that was totally AFC. it goes to show the writers are big f*cking AFCs themselves. they've got the 'bad boy' doing sh*t that a real DJ would NEVER do - making a mixed tape for a girl who is only interested because the guy she's primarily interested in is with another woman.

if sawyer was a DJ he'd hook up with other chics on the island and make kate come to him (he'd be the prize!).

whats going to happen now is he's goign to break up with kate and end up doing hurley reverse cowboy in the bushes.
 

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he didn't make Kate a "mix tape", really...wasn't it the tape with Juliette and Ben that Locke gave to Sawyer?
 

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if you are talking mix tape as in a mixed cd... I would assume that's music she wants to have sex to and take my cue!....

seriously.. i know when the 2 times I made mixed cd's for women, it was songs i could picture me making "sweet love" to her to
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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