The Short Road to Getting it Right

[NewAndImproved]

There are a lot of posts and information on this site. An overwhelming number of rules to becoming a successful DJ. I've always believed, though, that the distance between doing what you've been doing (failure) and making a change is very short (success).

I went on a date a couple of weeks ago. I met the girl at a club, handed her my phone and told her to give me her number. I called 4 days later and told her to keep her Saturday afternoon free. I then texted her on Friday telling her when I'd be there to pick her up. Simple as.

She kept talking about how she loved that I took charge and even as we were driving around, that I wouldn't tell her where I was going. Now, I'm still the somewhat quiet, overanalyzing rAFC I've been through most of my life but by flipping my own script just a bit, it made a difference. And to be honest, there's no reason I couldn't have done these simple things a long time ago.

 

[L B]

Good job on trying something new. The problem with most is that they tend to fall back on what their most comfortable with, even if that means failure after failure. Also a lot of the time, we know what the simple answer is, but we find excuses to not do it.

 

[S0LID]

It is simple. People on forums do over complicate it, and that's why their personalities go from bland to worse.

I'd hate to spend the day with someone like Mystery, nerrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrd!!!

 

[Warrior74]

It's called getting into the flow. It's as easy as deciding. At some point all of the pickup artist crap stops being learning and starts being over analyzing. That's why you have to step away from pick up boards and just get in tune with the natural flow of life, you have to let this stuff fall into your subconscious and let it become natural and a part of you. I know this sounds all sorta hocus pocus like...but trust me. That's the last step in your training.