"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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The Secret to Success With Women!

kyphan

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I will break this down for you into very simple steps that will give you everything you need to do to be successful with women.

1) Clearly define what you want. Is it casual dating to get laid, or are you looking for something long-term?

2) Study the subject objectively. Realize that there are fundamentals which apply to how the world works, and then everything else (which is 90% of what's written).

3) Leave this site with the fundamentals in your mind. Go out, try, screw up, make adjustments, reap success, repeat successful actions, screw up some more, and continually improve yourself.

3.5) Embrace failure. Let it hurt so much that it forces you to change, and laugh at it the next time, when you don't make that same mistake.

4) Return here only for reminders. Your goal is to NEVER come back.

The only fundamentals that matter.

1) Focus on what you want. What you want out of women, what you want in life, and how you want to operate.

2) Her interest matters more than yours does. If she's not interested, whatever you want is NOT happening.

3) Always have a good time, all the time.

4) Do not settle on a woman for a relationship. Make sure she has the key qualities you are looking for. Make sure you know what key qualities you want.

5) You are a rare, one-of-a-kind person. Let her win you over, give her enough that she wants more. If you ever find yourself giving too much early on all you have to do is find something else to do for a week and it will make her wonder why you're not calling.

Now leave, and I hope you never come back.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Andromax

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kyphan said:
Now leave, and I hope you never come back.
but I like posting on here...
 

KontrollerX

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Actually its good to remain part of this place as it re-inforces the DJ mentality which society is almost 100% against.
 

ZenGodMod

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KontrollerX said:
Actually its good to remain part of this place as it re-inforces the DJ mentality which society is almost 100% against.
Yes, the temple is here. This is where you get cleansed for the outside world.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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