Ok, when I explain things to guys outside the community. I explain it this way:
Think of a rubber band. Ok? Put two fingers in it, and separate it. Play with it, or at least picture it.
If you stretch, separate your fingers too much, the rubber band will break, and there will be nothing holding your two fingers together. Now, if you separate them as much as you can, they will come with more strength, and causing a bigger bang! once they come together. And if you continue to stretch it continuosly, depending on it's material, it's likely to, with time, stretch more and more. And as it gets more and more apart, once they come together, they'll crash with a bigger bang!
Now, think on women.
First of all, there has to be a rubber band between you, something that brings you together. If there is nothing to begin with, you're screwed, with
that particular woman.
It's similar to taking two steps ahead, one back. You start by ****ing her ass. C&F comments, neg hits, kino, etc. These are one of the things that stretch the rubber band. Things that strengthen it, is making her feel good about herself, etc.
Now, as far as kino goes. The rubber band explains it very well. If you go too far, and start massaging her tits, the rubber band breaks. If, on the other hand, you go bit by bit, stretching the band slowly, there'll come a time when it will be normal and, in a way, proper, to do so. This explains sex. When you are making out etc, and you want to skip to sex, and she doesn't let you, you know you must go back to making out, and then stretch again, until the rubber band stretches enough for you to be in the sex zone.
Other ways to stretch the rubber band is to avoid her, or even, be off contact. That'll push you two apart.
Don't be stretching all the time, get the rubber band a chance of recuperating and getting stretchier. The only way to break a rubber band is to stretch too much.
Stretch the rubber band so you can stretch some vaginal tubes! :woo:
Think of a rubber band. Ok? Put two fingers in it, and separate it. Play with it, or at least picture it.
If you stretch, separate your fingers too much, the rubber band will break, and there will be nothing holding your two fingers together. Now, if you separate them as much as you can, they will come with more strength, and causing a bigger bang! once they come together. And if you continue to stretch it continuosly, depending on it's material, it's likely to, with time, stretch more and more. And as it gets more and more apart, once they come together, they'll crash with a bigger bang!
Now, think on women.
First of all, there has to be a rubber band between you, something that brings you together. If there is nothing to begin with, you're screwed, with
that particular woman.
It's similar to taking two steps ahead, one back. You start by ****ing her ass. C&F comments, neg hits, kino, etc. These are one of the things that stretch the rubber band. Things that strengthen it, is making her feel good about herself, etc.
Now, as far as kino goes. The rubber band explains it very well. If you go too far, and start massaging her tits, the rubber band breaks. If, on the other hand, you go bit by bit, stretching the band slowly, there'll come a time when it will be normal and, in a way, proper, to do so. This explains sex. When you are making out etc, and you want to skip to sex, and she doesn't let you, you know you must go back to making out, and then stretch again, until the rubber band stretches enough for you to be in the sex zone.
Other ways to stretch the rubber band is to avoid her, or even, be off contact. That'll push you two apart.
Don't be stretching all the time, get the rubber band a chance of recuperating and getting stretchier. The only way to break a rubber band is to stretch too much.
Stretch the rubber band so you can stretch some vaginal tubes! :woo: