"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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the risk of STDs in Highschool?

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I made a possible mistake[?] by getting with this pretty well-used girl. I do believe shes been tossed around, and I know for a fact that some people at my school have them STDs. All i did was makeout.
Now I've always ahd the "cold sore" kind of herpes, the non lethal kind. I gto with the girl wed, but today[friday] I have ahd this non-visible sore type thing on my right lip, it tingles/stigns fi i push my lip with my tongue.

Basicly I'm wondering A) Am I jsut too cautious? All i did was makeout. I don't remember being told anything could be transfered by making out? hope not...
am i wrong?

and are there any real precautions i can take other than know my girls pasts n wear a condom?
jw. I've never gotten with a more "experienced" female. I usually stick to the non-hoe-ish[sorta] grils.

But when a hott older girl goes "come to my house and I'll give you an early birthday present."...well come on, no one would turn that down.

thnaks...and please answer my questions. i have paranoia..my mom is crazy paranoid abotu everything, i get it from her.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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oral herpes (cold sores) can be transfered by making out.

no biggie
 
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Originally posted by Centaurion
oral herpes (cold sores) can be transfered by making out.

no biggie
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There is no such thing as oral herpes, but if you and an infected person swap spit, you just got yourself some herpes. It really is nothing major... 25% of Americans today have it.
 
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i now have a red splotch on the outside of my lip where it was feeling weird last post.

this **** isn't bad? can anyone hook em up with some detail on it, alink or anythin?

*it could be a red-pimple like thing. its jsut worryin me cause of the position on my lip.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Yeah, 25% of the population supposedly has genital herpes, but more like 75% probably has oral herpes. Actually, if you want to get technical, there IS such thing as oral herpes. Herpes comes in two major forms: simplex I and simplex II, which are oral herpes and genital herpes. However, because of oral sex, the distinction between the two is blurred since both of them can exist in the other place (each can exist on genitals and oral area). Chances are very likely that she gave you oral herpes, and this is the milder one of the two, not having outbreaks that are as intense as those of genital herpes. Of course, chances are, you have that one outbreak on your lips and then you could be asymptomatic (having no symptoms or sign that you even still have it) for the rest of your life, or just have one or two a year. Having no personal experience with it, that is the extent of my knowledge. I wouldn't worry about it, but if you can't stop worrying about it, see a doctor or something.
Finally, never fu-ck with another nasty slu-t again.
 
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Originally posted by Patrick124
i now have a red splotch on the outside of my lip where it was feeling weird last post.

this **** isn't bad? can anyone hook em up with some detail on it, alink or anythin?

*it could be a red-pimple like thing. its jsut worryin me cause of the position on my lip.
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See a dermatologist. It could be acne, but only a dermatologist would know for sure. Nothing you see on the Internet will give you an accurate answer and you might just be freaking out.
 
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Could be anything, could even be a weird pimple on your lip. But yes you can get oral herpes if she had a spot like that visible when you made out, you cant catch it if she was completely clear around the mouth (no breakout). If it is herpes itll flair up about once a month then go away. Id wait a lil while and see if this happens before you goto a doc, because even if you have it, its not a *huge* deal
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Actually, you it IS still possible to spread the herpes virus even if you don't have an outbreak at the time.... it's just much less likely. But yeah, he's right, even if you have it, it is more of a nuisance than anything.
 
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