"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The right way to verbalize interest

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If you do... DO NOT DEGRADE YOURSELF WHILE DOING SO. Think about it this way... if you were a HB, would you rather a desperate loser tell you you're beautiful, or would you rather a masculine, confident man who could have his pick of the litter tell you the same thing? If it's a desperate loser, he would make you feel like he was simply settling for you because he couldn't have hotter girls. If it's a confident man who you know is unafraid to go for any girl he wants, he will make you feel very special.

Heck, as a guy, would you rather a dumb UG1 tell you you're hot or sexy, or an intelligent HB9? Same thing here. You can control whether you make her melt or make her squirm by HOW you present yourself when you deliver your compliment.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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This little nugget of wisdom is what enables you to CALL THE DAY AFTER YOU GET HER NUMBER, and enables you to do other stuff that PU bibles preach against. Because PU bibles assume that you are still coming from a place of insecurity and desparation, they make rules for you. But when you truly act on your masculine energy instead of that other limiting bullsh!t like insecurity, you can get away with damn near anything and still not lose face.

Props for another great tip, MF.
 
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Originally posted by Duke
This little nugget of wisdom is what enables you to CALL THE DAY AFTER YOU GET HER NUMBER, and enables you to do other stuff that PU bibles preach against. Because PU bibles assume that you are still coming from a place of insecurity and desparation, they make rules for you. But when you truly act on your masculine energy instead of that other limiting bullsh!t like insecurity, you can get away with damn near anything and still not lose face.

Props for another great tip, MF.
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SO god damn true....you are a genius duke...!
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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