"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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The Return of BobFuest (an update on the one u miss most)

BobFuest

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Hey guys, how is it going here? I decided to drop in and say hi. Not to b1tch, not to cry, and not to tell u boohoo wuss BS about some girl. Me and my girl are doing incredibly well and it has been that way ever since I left here. No AFC stuff, no games, pure honesty (as much as can be expected), with minimal fighting or pain in the ass stuff. It will be two years soon enough and we are going to move in together in a few months. Maybe I will get married someday. Maybe not but I would rather be optimistic about it.
I really had to leave here to find my Chi. I think that being here and talking all day about women who are worthless and trash will make you question everything in a relationship when you should just go with what you feel. Not every girl is trash to be thrown away. There is no simple solution to relationships but you cant sit and play games all day. You have to grow up. So, in parting, I just wanted to let you guys know everything turned out for the best and I hope it does for you too. Thanks for everything!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Mind_Body_Soul

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I think that being here and talking all day about women who are worthless and trash will make you question everything in a relationship when you should just go with what you feel.
This exact thought was rolling around in my head today as I was driving home. There can be too much of a good thing. Unfortunately, most men don't have enough of what is taught here and are walked all over, on the flip side, eating breathing and sleeping this stuff will also cause you problems as everything will be based on tactics and lose it's spontaneity/life.

Balance is key.
 

Hitman10000

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G'luck, but keep things seperate if you're moving in together.
 

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If you think the information in here is no longer needed once you enter into a LTR then perhaps, no offense intended, you didn't get some of the more important messages here.

Lots of stuff in here to keep your head straight and your LTR fun and exciting.
 

BobFuest

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grinder said:
If you think the information in here is no longer needed once you enter into a LTR then perhaps, no offense intended, you didn't get some of the more important messages here.

Lots of stuff in here to keep your head straight and your LTR fun and exciting.
no offense but most of this stuff are guide lines and not rules to rule your life by.I dont need ideas, i got my own.
read my new post in the mature section for more info.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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BobFuest

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grinder said:
Lots of stuff in here to keep your head straight and your LTR fun and exciting.
BTW, as furstrating as women are, i dont see why u need to keep your head straight. Sure u may blow up once in awhile or get jealous at something stupid happening in front of your face but so what? your the prize. The king. Your woman should love you so much that she will get over it. Mine does. She knows I am a great guy and if she sticks with me her life will always be great. Not just fun and exciting. :yes:
 

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BobFuest said:
no offense but most of this stuff are guide lines and not rules to rule your life by.I dont need ideas, i got my own.
read my new post in the mature section for more info.

Yes your life is going good right now. Congratulations on the gf and all that. I guarantee you if your girl leaves you for some guy you will be back at sosuave seeking advice. Right or wrong??????

If everything was always perfect in someones life they would never even bother with sosuave. Personally from the ages of 20-28.5 I would have laughed at this sh1t. Why because at this time I was a king I was successful with ladies. Over the last 1.5 years my game wasn't at its peak and that is what brought me to sosuave.
 

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if you move in with her, get the lease in your name and your name only. you never know what you never know.
 

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I agree with Bob. A girl almost lost all trust in me by busting her balls... haha.
 
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