"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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The real way to keep a woman

mrgoodstuff

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I think it's wistful thinking to believe that you can make a woman be more faithful to you just from good d1ck. Sure, it'll help. Sure, they'll probably come back for more at some point. And they'll tell you whatever they sense will work best to boost your ego enough that you'll give them validation in return.

Your best bet to keep a girl faithful is to bail out as soon as the honeymoon's over (almost every girl is faithful when they're 'in love;' you might can stretch that out to 18 months if you know what you're doing). Beyond that, you have to be a really solid dude all the way around (especially if you haven't knocked her up in that time period)--and more importantly you have to have selected the right girl at the right time in her life and be at a point in your life where you're not gonna hit a down stretch that'll set off her hypergamous alarms.
Right. She may be faithful, what if some of her female friends that she has in her ear start to stray?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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