Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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The real DJ, new years message

Zerotwoonenine

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ok some of you guys makes me sick, i mean some of us DJs who are good at the game use it as a tool to get laid, now that kind of people should get banned automatically and cannot call themselves DJs, the art of DJing is self improvement so that you become a cut above from other mens who just want to get laid with women, you see a real DJ is a good guy and who does look for a girl who is as good as him, who is a cut above from all those whors out there so he can get a real relationship, getting laid should come with the relationship,should not be the target of getting the girl to like you, thats why men who call them selves real "DJ"s but all they want is to get laid is pathetic, just a pretend DJ who use our art to confuse women, disguise their real sick selves.
Now dont get me wrong, i like sex as well, i know its in our genes, and i know all the things about how religion makes sex wrong and i agree with it as well, but some of u just makes it an excuse, it is true that its in our nature to spread out genes, but if all out want is sex and u r studying DJing to get sex, then seriously u should reconsider before you call yourself a DJ, cause u r just a player who call yourself a DJ and disgrace out name.
Ever seen the last samurai?? if u poses those qualities, and u dont give a damn when u get laid or not,then u r a real DJ, but if all you want is to get laid and u learn to act as if u r a gentleman to get laid, then call your self a player, not DJ, men like you disgust us real DJs.
So on the new years day, either change your mindset, or stop calling your self DJ, because that is not what DJing is about.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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