"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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''The question''

steelers

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Hey guys wassup
Okay here is the situation, I've improved so much over the past months. I can't even start.
I'm really getting to know this girl HB8 and she's shown a lot of indication of interest, and we worked together on some business stuff, she drove me home recently and I asked for her number and she gave it to me. She goes to my school, I see her almost everyday. She's in the same grade. I haven't called her or text since she gave the number a day ago.
What do I do, I just need to be clear on some things
what do you guys think?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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ARrocket

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Call her, and invite her to go ice skating/to the zoo/play mini golf/play tennis with you. Get her out on a date, be C&F, make her smile, kino it up, and have fun!
 

Tekniq

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ARrocket said:
Call her, and invite her to go ice skating/to the zoo/play mini golf/play tennis with you. Get her out on a date, be C&F, make her smile, kino it up, and have fun!
Yeah that about sums it up, but i would just add that you need understand that you have to show some sort of initiative and take what you want, make her understand she is now yours even if you are not going out; at least that way she will always have you on her mind.
 
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