The question, The answer?

[Mellow]

hey all dons, my first post, really like this site so far.

Anyways here's the senario.

So, Im in high school, just moved and began in a new class.
And I really thought this one chick is attractive and I talked to her a few times...

Litterly complimented her how she's good looking, and stuff like that.
And allways recived a smile back and a slightly blush.
However from what Ive heard she's a rookie when it comes to dating and et cetera.
So she isnt really that "flirty", so my question is, is she playing hard to get.
Though this I ran out of conversations starters, subjects to talk about and stuff like that....
I could use some help with that too.

My question, should I ask her out for some off-school time?

/ Best Regards, Mellow.

ps. Only serious answers I really like this girl ds.

 

[organizedconfusion]

please, in the future- just do it...seriously hang out with her and then see where it goes.The more you antagonize over it and think about doing it,the more pressure you'll put yourself under -until you make it into a big deal..once it IS a big deal and things don't go smoothly for some reason..that's when it sucks and things get all weird.Don't even let those weird feelings of anxiousness and doubt creep in.Procrastinating creates doubt and doubt creates fear and uncertainty.Just do it if not forget about it for a bit then meet up with her again.You're what..16-17,sh*t if i knew what i know now today..i'd be banging up a storm at your age!! LOL!

 

[Mellow]

^Yeah, I prolly should.

As I read this bondjamesbond's topic I should give it a shot.

It cant get worse than she rejects me, and I know myself, its her loss.

Here's my layup if everything goes the right way

her: hey you.
me: how are we doing this morning?
her: Im just fine, how about you?
me: well, it just got better
her: hehehe, well...*insert girl nag*
me: Oh, that sounds like fun >.>, What are you doing later on / after school?
her: Im doing this and that and bla bla bla.
me: wouldnt you like to have fun for a change? I dont know, lets say we go out have something to eat?
her: Sure.

ho ho, Im pure genious

 

[Delta]

yep.

NEVER WONDER! that is the waste of time that we all instinctually make. NEVER WONDER IF SHE LIKES YOU OR ANY SUCH CRAP LIKE THAT!!!

why wonder?

JUST ASK!

and never think you're going to do some silly crap like "express your feelings for her"... BLEEEEUUUUGHH!!!

JUST ASK HER OUT!

with that simple maneuver, you get your answer. if it's a no, BETTER TO KNOW IT EARLY! then you NEXT HER and you move on to the next.

highschool is PRIME territory. you will never again (not even college) have such immediate and natural access to so many women. DON'T WASTE THIS RICH OPPORTUNITY!

delta