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The Psychology of Do (A Formula for Success)

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This is a fact of life that will automatically, once acknowledged, separate you from most of the men who are out there trying to get women.

Real men, and this goes even artists who deal with emotion and abstractions, are very base creatures. Really base. This is becoming despised in today's culture but it is true and always will be. There are basically two patterns in men, just two. You can break it down or build it up, but in life in comes down to two ways only.
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One: A Man

Think--->Do---->Fail/Succeed------>Think----->Do----->Fail/Succeed

Two: A Confused Man

Think---->Imagine Do------>Imagine Fail/Succeed------>Think------>Imagine Do
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Contrary to popular belief, the think step on path one can be minimized. As an example take a look at Efren Reyes, who is widely considered the best pool player in the world, and has remained there on top for at least 20 years. How did he learn to play pool? By playing pool. He was a kid, he was in a pool hall, he said "cool look at the balls go", and the rest is history. Of course he thought some, but thinking in and of itself has become disconnected from its executor: THE BODY.

Now of course humans are infinitely complex. But it will always come down to this.

Examples:

I look down, my kitchen floor is dirty. I mop it. The end.

I feel a little under the weather, groggy, and sluggish. My energy is down. I wake up everyday and run a mile. The end.

My grass is getting high, I mow it. I get what I need: gas, oil, whatever. I mow it. The end.

I don't like my current job. I think, it is better to have one on one conversations and find a new job, rather than simply apply online. I hop in my car, and go find a new job. I get whatever I need and do it. The end.

I need money. My funds = My Earnings-my spending. If I can't change my earnings I can change my spending. Buying bull**** like bottled water and cigarettes stops(take the steps), and I start seeing alot more money at the end of the month. The end.

It's not magic or philosophy, it is reality. This used to be an unspoken law of manhood, that I think just needs to go over. Why do you think girls fall for Army men so much and so easily? They are masters of DOING. They wake up and are forced to challenge themselves EVERYDAY in one way or another. They DO. Does a woman give an Army man any tricks? Not many. This DOES NOT MEAN BECOME AN ARMY BADASS, it means just do, and do you. If you can do that, then women will jump all over you.
 

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Sound advice for Life

Hey, good post. Use this in every area of your life.

There are other facets to this way of thinking, too. An example I heard recently:

"Always err on the side of action"

This is a pretty cool way to see life. If given a choice between doing nothing, and doing something, always go for it. Should I go to the gym or stay home? Go to the gym. Should I go on vacation of stay home? Go on vacation. Should I approach this attractive woman or sit here and drink my coffee? Take a breath mint and approach--no one like coffee breath!
 

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Great post man.

I was thinking the same thing the other day, which is why I responded.

My manager at work once emailed our team a quote that said,

"We are not only defined by what we do, but also by what we don't do"

I don't know who the author is, but its a great quote.

Also rapper Method Man had a song back in the day called, "I Gets My Thing in Action". The chorus goes

"I gets my thing in action, to live to love to see to learn"

Action (which includes assertiveness, intiative, proactiveness)is the only way to experience life and learn.

Right now I started taking MMA, ( a mix of submission grappling, boxing, muai thai, judo, wrestling) and its helped me apply action to my life. Mainly because when your fighting/sparring several elements are at play. This includes aggression, assertiveness, competitiveness. You have to engage in order to win. This has helped carry into my own life. I am way more comfortable flirting and going up to girls, and am generally more relaxed and confident.

To add on, fighting is never learned just through teaching and textbooks. Once I learn a new technique in class applying it is another. You truly learn for yourself how a technique works, when to use it, and its value.

Its like reading the DJ board. Reading all the techniques is one thing. Getting out in the field is where progress is truly made.
 
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