The Professional Victim

[bigneil]

No it'll actually be like taking a disgusting curdled bottle of milk, drinking it and then say "Wow this bottle tastes amazing"

Categorically false. Fresh eggs are fresh. Old eggs are old. You don't get to declare fresh eggs old and old eggs fresh based on your bias regarding the chick's profession.

The SMV graph doesn't have little hiccups where certain professions don't count. There is no old_smv graph where 40 year old non-strippers are actually in greater demand than 20 year old strippers. Only women in peak SMV can have men throw money at them to begin with. It makes them easier to buy, harder to seduce.

 

[old_skoolr]

Categorically false. Fresh eggs are fresh. Old eggs are old. You don't get to declare fresh eggs old and old eggs fresh based on your bias regarding the chick's profession.

The SMV graph doesn't have little hiccups where certain professions don't count. There is no old_smv graph where 40 year old non-strippers are actually in greater demand than 20 year old strippers. Only women in peak SMV can have men throw money at them to begin with. It makes them easier to buy, harder to seduce.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

Its a form of narcissism. Not necessarily the full thing though, apologies from women have been rare in my life and they were not all narcissist. By the way, narcissists actually will apologize if and only if doing so will maintain your value as narcissistic supply(but they get very embittered over time from doing it).

I know a lady, who I am trying to date, that apologizes for replying to my texts late. This makes her all the more attractive.

 

[soulforge]

Not only that, but a woman can actually fall in love with a man simply by his act of putting her in her place.

I recently had a girl tell me "Neil, I normally own everyone and get my way every time, and I can demand whatever I want, and you turned the tables (by threatening to find another model if she was late again) and you had me begging you just for a chance to see you - I couldn't believe it!". Years ago I had a girl fall simply because I replied to her page-long LJBF email with a "No".

Hey Niel.. I have experienced this myself.. I have found in the past, if a woman has stepped out of line... then a call I call her out on that chit.. she steps back into line, and even loves you for it..

But some woman.. will react negatively when you call them out, become defencive, start acting like a victim.. especially later in the relationship, when you have already invested in her..

These are the woman that become toxic in your life.. and yes cutting them loose is the only option, no matter have amazing her Vagina is...

When you have the feels for her, its very hard thing to do.. but you are RIGHT man.. Its better to be alone than with some bich that chips away at your self esteem and brings nothing of real value to you!

 

[playa99]

Good post. I have dealt with a lot of people like this in business and in my personal life.

The best way to deal with a 'narcissist' is to run for the hills. No matter what you do, you cannot win. They can do the most terrible things & in their mind it is justifiable.

A confident, secure man who isn't desperate will see the red flags and eject. The AFC who has weak mindset can fall prey to 'narcissists.'

Your thought process becomes warped in thinking that you need a woman.

 

[soulforge]

Good post. I have dealt with a lot of people like this in business and in my personal life.

The best way to deal with a 'narcissist' is to run for the hills. No matter what you do, you cannot win. They can do the most terrible things & in their mind it is justifiable.

A confident, secure man who isn't desperate will see the red flags and eject. The AFC who has weak mindset can fall prey to 'narcissists.'

Your thought process becomes warped in thinking that you need a woman.

I hear you man.. here is the thing, the "serious" red flags usually don't start popping up until you catch the feels, and your pretty heavily invested..

but I guess the same rule applies.. either way you have to walk away, no matter how hard it is.

trust me you can never win.. your self respect and dignity will be put on the line constantly.. They justify there chitty behaviour, even when it's clear as daylight not only to you, but everyone around you, how fuked up it is..

 

[dude99]

I hear you man.. here is the thing, the "serious" red flags usually don't start popping up until you catch the feels, and your pretty heavily invested..

but I guess the same rule applies.. either way you have to walk away, no matter how hard it is.

trust me you can never win.. your self respect and dignity will be put on the line constantly.. They justify there chitty behaviour, even when it's clear as daylight not only to you, but everyone around you, how fuked up it is..

I know it is one thing to say it and another to do it, but you have to slow down your feels. In order for a relationship to work with you being the prize, you leading and her following your lead, she has to care about the relationship more than you do. She has to follow your lead, and RESPECT YOU. If she knows you care more than she does that is when she will take you for granted. That is when the red flags will appear.

The one who cares the least is the one that controls the relationship

 

[wifehunter]

How many of you have dealt with woman like these?

I'm talking about, when she has clearly fuked up.. done something to embarrass you.. or upset you

But she can NEVER EVER accept fukin responsibility.. you have to draw this bich a fukin picture, just to make her realise what she has done..

Otherwise she is completely oblivious about her actions..

And when you call her out on her BS she then takes on the role of the VICTIM.. and tries to make you feel bad.

The word SORRY doesn't even exist to them..

Is this a form of Narcissism?

I just did nearly two years of this kinda chit.. do these woman lack empathy or remorse?

Seriously man any guys in LTRs right now, who's GF does not make an effort to take responsibility for her actions.. and does not come to you with a sincere apology..

You need to drop that girl.. otherwise your life will become a hell.. you will eventually resent resent and hate her!

These red flags should never be ignored.

It's common, expect it. Be surprised, when this is not the case.

Most american girls, are trash.

 

[Reykhel]

Huge warning signs/red flags from any woman: they are still connected to the past and blame things that
happened to them in the past for why their life is (****e) not the way they would like it to be.....these people will stay stuck and
attempt to drag you down with them......they tend to focus on things that are outside their control and thus remain victims as with this
paradigm they really do have their hands tied behind their backs....

Mantra back to them: What are you going to do about it? is that in your control or outside your control?

Avoid or minimize contact as much as possible. Remember: birds of a feather. Negative energy is cancerous. Why would you want to spend time or give any consideration to people like this. Unless....

People who are present and future focused tend to take responsibility for their lives. They tend to work diligently at the things that
are within their scope of control and thus in effect their circle of influence (what's inside their control) tends to widen. These folks are not complainers nor are they chicken littles crying that the sky is falling.

More contact with this kind. Positive energy is contagious.

 

[ubercat]

Good progress but you're still not applying some of the basics. Remember it's about your purpose in life. The woman's there for seks entertainment and maybe a bit of company. So basically don't take them so seriously. Give them something to complain about. PM Bible Belt for some of his Japanese rope tricks tie her up and f***** her in the ass. Every time she complains about that say yeah u were great honey and get the video out and show her and do it again.

 

[soulforge]

It's common, expect it. Be surprised, when this is not the case.

Most american girls, are trash.

Dude its just fukin wrong.. 7

Good progress but you're still not applying some of the basics. Remember it's about your purpose in life. The woman's there for seks entertainment and maybe a bit of company. So basically don't take them so seriously. Give them something to complain about. PM Bible Belt for some of his Japanese rope tricks tie her up and f***** her in the ass. Every time she complains about that say yeah u were great honey and get the video out and show her and do it again.

Haha I like this.. anyhow going by that line of thinking.. would you say a full on relationship, living together and all that chit should be ruled out? Because I guess that could be described as taking a woman seriously, if you move the bich in with you.

 

[ubercat]

Mate please don't do it. Moving in with a chick with issues. I can't take another year of what do I do next threads. For Christ's sake learn to enjoy your own company and be your own man for a while before you go shacking up again

 

[soulforge]

Mate please don't do it. Moving in with a chick with issues. I can't take another year of what do I do next threads. For Christ's sake learn to enjoy your own company and be your own man for a while before you go shacking up again

Lol no man.. I have zero intentions of moving a chick in with me.. the last one got kicked out in only 3 months... not making that horrible mistake again!!

Just focusing on work, training and banging a few chicks right now.. and also learning some chit on here!

 

[wifehunter]

Dude its just fukin wrong.. 7

I get you, your not alone. The reality is that chicks are brainwashed by feminism. Most are sheep, and will follow the crowd. They think its normal to be "empowered".

It makes fuking me sick.