The power of Jealousy...

[European-DJ]

alot of poster - especially pre 2010, speak about the power of jealousy.

To be honest, i know from personal experience that jealousy is a *****.

But do any of you use it in your arsenal, and if you do, How?

Regards

 

[exile663dfx]

No. Waste of time, unless you want drama. Then.. sure?

 

[European-DJ]

No. Waste of time, unless you want drama. Then.. sure?

I am thinking more of jealousy vs. girls who have friend-zoned you?..

I think it could be used as a tool... but then again, haven't fieldtestet it my self !

 

[bigneil]

If they like you, they will naturally be jealous. They will ask about girls you mentioned once, and if you are in the bar they will babysit you "Stand right there where I can watch you."

You can't try to make them jealous, but if you're not exclusive, you can tell good stories about your other women. For example, when I told the stripper about the next girl I was with after her, I said "I have a good story but I won't tell you unless you really want to hear it" and she said "Tell me". Half-way through the story she said "Ok, stop. Don't tell me anymore."

As far as you being jealous, you should only be jealous about 2% of the time. To be 0% jealous is also unnatural as it shows you don't care who sleeps with her (i.e., impregnates her). You occasionally must put your foot down or be walked over.

 

[exile663dfx]

I am thinking more of jealousy vs. girls who have friend-zoned you?..

I think it could be used as a tool... but then again, haven't fieldtestet it my self !

Field test it, then let us know.

 

[European-DJ]

Field test it, then let us know.

Will do this.


And to BigNeil;

I am not the jealous type ANYMORe ... my first relationship.. man was i jealous.. it was imbarrasing!

 

[ezio]

I am thinking more of jealousy vs. girls who have friend-zoned you?..

I think it could be used as a tool... but then again, haven't fieldtestet it my self !

i've fieldtested it on a girl who friendzoned me and it works like nothing you can ever imagine especially if you start hanging out with much hotter girls.
Girl friendzoned me and i went completely NC but i get to see her once a week in a social setting. While ignoring girl no1, i start hanging out with girl no2, who is easily the prettiest girl in the entire group. The look on girl no1 face anytime she sees me and girl no2 together is absolutely priceless. you can ****ing see her hampster doing cartwheels tryin to figure out if me and girl no2 are dating lol. girl who friendzoned me starts asking sneaky ass questions about my 'new girlfriend' and i'm like ***** it ain't none of your damn business what i do with my life. the best way to get under a girls skin is to make her jealous.even after she friendzones you, she still wants you to herself. don't chase-replace

 

[Chickfight]

Jealousy in men and women are different. When guys are jealous, they see girl they like with guy and think "Damn, maybe she likes him more than me, maybe she'll fall in love and I wont have another chance, maybe she'll leave me", even though girls hang out and flirt with different guys all the time. Therefore it comes from a place of neediness and low self-esteem and is an undesirable trait.

When women see a guy getting with another woman they see that the man is preselected and of highstatus, and thus they become more attracted to him. This is natural for all women. Men don't do this, we don't get jealous and think "oh look how cool and high status that girl is, cause all those guys are flirting with her". This difference is why if you're walking around intimately with a hot babe, every girl that sees you will have a certain degree of jealousy, even if they don't know you. If we see a random girl walking around with a hot guy, we might think she's hot, but will we be jealous? Nope. Jealousy in women explains the guy in the club who is making out with woman after woman.

However, when a girl friendzones you, it's because she considers you an AFC. Seeing you with another girl may make her give you a shot to show her that you're no longer one. So she'll come on up to you, give you some attention, but if you're the same AFC, nothing will change.

If you've actually changed and become and awesome alpha male and it wasn't just some lucky fluke that she saw you hooking up with a hot chick, but in fact was only one of many optiosn you have, then she'll come talk to you and realize how wrong she was all along. The thing is, when you've gotten to that level, you usually don't even want her anymore. Maybe throw her into the fbuddy rotation if she's lucky. This doesn't just apply to girls who have friendzoned you, but to any girl who has rejected you ever. After all, the only difference is that the FZ girls are the ones that like to keep these rejected guys around for attention to stroke their ego. They're more insecure. Trust me, the girls that reject AFCs clearly and directly are doing them a favor by letting them get on with their lives.

So my point is, don't think a girl who friendzoned you will suddenly want to be with you cause she sees you with a hot chick. Her interest might be temporarily heightened, but if you're still the same AFC, it will be just that, temporary.