The player's "dilemma" - how quick should be one's action

[JdelaSilviera]

When you meet a new girl, (excluding online dating where your intentions are obvious), you either have two options: a) to pretend you are not too interested or go slowly, or b) show immediatly you are interested avoiding this way the friendzone.

The problem with a) is that if you go too slowly you risk yourself of losing the girl and/or falling into the friendzone. Women from today can fvck as soon they leave their houses if they want to, since they are all approached too frequently it's crazy. A friend of mine who is supposedly a saint and rarely leaves her house recently made out with a guy she met a few hours later at a family wedding. He was good looking, and she is ugly... examples like this are abundant. Although this a) option has the advantadge of turning you into a challenge which will certainly intrigue women...

Now for b) the problem is that you risk yoursef by becoming one more guy who can't control himself. You almost become a number, since most guys interest is obvious right away. Even Mystery says the problem with the majority of guys is showing interest too fast..

What's your view...

 

[FairShake]

Always seem of similar or slightly less interest than her.

 

[IBreatheSpears]

Hypergamy.

If she thinks your SMV is higher than hers then she is inclined to do whatever she can to "have" you. If she thinks your SMV is lower or equal to hers, she isn't worried about you running out on her, so she doesn't feel the need to fu­ck you right away.

Some girls are more chaste than others, of course. Just because a girl doesn't fu­ck you on the first date doesn't mean she has low interest or thinks you have a low SMV.

 

[Bingo-Player]

I agree with pairs

It is getting that balance between getting your intentions made perfectly clear , having some discretion and also showing as little interest as possible

A really tough combination to master

although i will say if a chick is interested enough in you she will help you get in her panties quite quickly