"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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The Perfect Gentleman - Meeting Her Parents

B-Lemond

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Winning the Mother:

Mother's want a well behaved boy. They want to see that you are respectful and in general a Nice Guy. You should be chivalrous, suave, yet sincere. I know that the "nice guy" thing might be confusing, but women at this age couldn't ask for anything more. She'll just love you.

Mothers LOVE compliments. Read that again. Mothers LOVE compliments.

If you are too afraid to tell her directly, tell your girl, who will then let the mother know. Complimenting the Mother is a great way to have her like you.

Generally, that is all you need to win the mom over. However, if you are a playful and fun person, you can let that playfulness come out. In fact, I encourage it to come out.

Winning the Father:

What the Father wants is a guy who is NOT Sexual. They can't stand seeing their daughter being groped, or kissed. The last thing they want to picture is their beautiful little princess being penetrated by some random guy.

Act like a cool guy and try to find commonalities with him. This is just basic communication and rapport building skills.

This only thing you need to remember about the Fathers is that you don't want to be sexual about his daughter in front of him.

Happy Hunting!
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Steg

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Good advice most people overlook. Wish I got it earlier thouigh lol.
 

dannowillbookem

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my girls parents love me. rich people and they find me very entertaining. makes me feel like their monkey or something.

i think they know about the hanky panky that goes on upstairs and i doubt theyre thrilled about it, though
 
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