"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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The Path to Djism

Roly

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Allow me to express this like Yoda or a Wiseman with cool ass shades meditating on top of a mountain:

The Path to being an enlightened Man is NOT ALWAYS the popular belief of being praise, being well like and having the approval of others and such and such but rather it can be the opposite. One must have the strength to endure plenty of criticism and disapproval from many, and not be bitter in return.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Roly said:
... One must have the strength to endure plenty of criticism and disapproval from many, and not be bitter in return.
Who you tellin' brudda? :up:
 

Roly

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It's true man

After I've been on the DJ Path lately, I sense a great deal of animosity going on. I'm far from being a DJ, I still have many " flaws" and " weaknesses" to which I've got to work on. But Realizing that you can't always please others and people are not always gonna be tapping your shoulders all time time is a great stepping stone for the DJ mindset.
 
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