The Older the Woman, the More Difficulty She Has Pair Bonding

[SW15]

@SW15, the manosphere's memes and assumptions about oversexed coeds and 20 somethings indulging non stop in chads is dubious at best. I won't go into a lot of detail, but the reasons should be obvious

1. '20 to '22 happened. Everyone was avoiding everyone. Those dating settled into LTR's for a looooong time.
2. coeds are extremely busy these days with school and work; there isn't a lot of time for serial dating.
3. once out of college, these women have a stronger career orientation than ever, and a stronger anti-family mentality than ever.

I don't see evidence of women experiencing significant emotional problems until age 27 or late 20's generally speaking. Although you will see a lot of passive aggressive game playing past the age of 25 which isn't quite the same thing as biterness and anger. If you choose to deal with women mid 30's and later, you might as well be swimming in a pool of grenades.

As I've noted before, if anything women have been noticeably undersexed in the past couple of years rather than the other way around. The meme has reversed itself.

Arguing with your partner over Covid? You're not alone, with the pandemic straining many relationships

Disagreements over Covid restrictions, child vaccination and even the very existence of the virus have seen some relationships pushed to breaking point.

www.cnbc.com

Those dating did not settle into LTRs for a long time, although logically one would think that. There are some strong data points on there about a divorce filing spike during the pandemic but more inconclusive data on non-marital breakups.

Item 3 is true in my experience. Item 2 is likely true as well. I felt like I was experiencing this when I was in college (2001-05) and I can only imagine that it has gotten worse. During the 2001-05 era, tuitions had already gone up a lot (a trend started in the 1990s) and were continuing to escalate, forcing less time to be dating focused and more time to be schoolwork focused and later career focused to pay back the loans and/or get a positive return on effort/investment.

Dealing with women 30+ is tough.

 

[Striker_93]

Who gives a fvck about pair bonding

 

[Epimanes]

Does she get any testosterone if you don't use a condom but don't ejaculate in her?

I definitely feel better when I am getting laid vs. when I am not getting laid.

I am using condoms in my sex though.

That's harder to determine.... the best absorption is penetration with ejaculation. Unless your condom leaks bad or somthing... I don't think she would.... women's juices can become external to her genitals.... where as ours is mostly internal til we blow...

 

[Slowhandluke]

women say the same things because they got burned by some Chad or Brad the bum lol.

Well women want the top ten percent. That's hard for the average man because the average man is average.

There have been studies that show men aren't so picky. They will pick the average woman.

 

[Slowhandluke]

Who gives a fvck about pair bonding

Why even date? Just get an escort. You will spend less time trying to learn seduction technics or simping. The results are quicker and in the long term cheaper.

 

[Striker_93]

Why even date? Just get an escort. You will spend less time trying to learn seduction technics or simping. The results are quicker and in the long term cheaper.

I don't need seduction techniques or simping.

And I date for the sex and fun. Could care less about "bonding" that's women talk.

 

[Zimbabwe]

Who gives a fvck about pair bonding

There is more to life than just being promiscuous

 

[Striker_93]

There is more to life than just being promiscuous

To each its own.

 

[SW15]

40 year old female virgin.

Oh man, that woman would bond like crazy!

Most women are able to have sex by age 20. According to the first link, only 12% of women are virgins between 20-24.
The second link discusses an increase in the inability for people born in the 1980s/1990s to get laid earlier in life compared to earlier times. That's Millennials and early Gen Z.

On 'Late'-In-Life Virginity Loss

Those who don’t have sex during their teen years are in the minority, but the reasons for—and effects of—waiting differ for everyone.

www.theatlantic.com

Sexual Inactivity During Young Adulthood Is More Common Among U.S. Millennials and iGen: Age, Period, and Cohort Effects on Having No Sexual Partners After Age 18 - Archives of Sexual Behavior

Examining age, time period, and cohort/generational changes in sexual experience is key to better understanding sociocultural influences on sexuality and relationships. Americans born in the 1980s and 1990s (commonly known as Millennials and iGen) were more likely to report having no sexual...

link.springer.com

No, It’s Not Weird To Be A Virgin In College

Movies like "American Pie" and "Blockers" make it seem like it's unusual to be a virgin in college — but that's really not the case.

www.refinery29.com

 

[Slowhandluke]

I don't need seduction techniques or simping.

And I date for the sex and fun. Could care less about "bonding" that's women talk.

It's not just women talk, but a lot of men want women to bound and be a lifetime partner also. Sounds like you have some psychopathic tendencies. Have fun. To each his own.

 

[Who Dares Win]

Oh man, that woman would bond like crazy!

Most women are able to have sex by age 20. According to the first link, only 12% of women are virgins between 20-24.
The second link discusses an increase in the inability for people born in the 1980s/1990s to get laid earlier in life compared to earlier times. That's Millennials and early Gen Z.

On 'Late'-In-Life Virginity Loss

Those who don’t have sex during their teen years are in the minority, but the reasons for—and effects of—waiting differ for everyone.

www.theatlantic.com

Sexual Inactivity During Young Adulthood Is More Common Among U.S. Millennials and iGen: Age, Period, and Cohort Effects on Having No Sexual Partners After Age 18 - Archives of Sexual Behavior

Examining age, time period, and cohort/generational changes in sexual experience is key to better understanding sociocultural influences on sexuality and relationships. Americans born in the 1980s and 1990s (commonly known as Millennials and iGen) were more likely to report having no sexual...

link.springer.com

No, It’s Not Weird To Be A Virgin In College

Movies like "American Pie" and "Blockers" make it seem like it's unusual to be a virgin in college — but that's really not the case.

www.refinery29.com

The fact that most young males dont have sex regularly and are undersecsed it's undeniable.

They build an army of unvalidated, undersecsed, frustrated men more than willing to say f-it to society overall...people strongly underestimate the long term damage on men when they get hurt, humiliated or neglected in their prime.

I personally get much more concerned from a man with an hurt ego than a man that got some money stolen from him.

It's not even about the sex, it's all about a personality built on a weak foundation.