"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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DJDamage said:
If the bail money is set at only $500 then let her parents pay for it...
This is a very good point. I'm all for friendships (even of ex's) but I'm not sure if I'd subject a new relationship to the ongoing drama of an ex.

Backbreaker, making the current girlfriend the "bad guy" if she has an issue with it is an interesting concept. I'd ask why forsaking your current relationship for one which has past is so important to you. It sounds as if you feel indentured to your ex and had not "completely" moved on.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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just becuase I am not ****ing her, doesn't mean Id on't have a relationship with her anymore.

Not all ex's are on that leve lwith me (trust me). My mom and dad borrow money from each other all the time, and both are remarried, and neither my step mom or step dad have a problem, because there is nothing (and that's an understatement) there, just friends, who both know they weren' tmade for each other, but understand that they can still be cool.

my ex.. just because wer aren't dating, doesn't mean we don't have a relationship. I don't see any difference then if my ex or my best friend called and needed 500 bucks.

if my current GF honestly has a legit problem with me helping out a true friend, not a girl I secretly wish to have sex with, but a FRIEND then she IS the bad guy, she needs to stop being so freakin immature.. it's a reason why I haven't dated anyone in aobut a year and 2 months event hough I had sex with over a dozen since.. I am extremely picky on who I actually DATE


my lipmis test is would you do the same or try to do the same for me.. my best friends would. My last REAL gf would. My dad would.

This girl wouldn't and that's why I haven't moved an inch.

however I haven't and won't do that for this girl, she doesn't qualify for thoose previliages.

her dog just died yesterday and they paid about 2grand in vet bills, which was her school tutition for this semister... with that said I don't think she would have a problem being bailed out i think she just wanted to do it so that her parents didnt' find out she got arrested.
 
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