The Official Thread That Gets You Laid...

[Ace of Flames]

gee that's great..anything other nuggets of wisdumb you'd like to share with us or are you here just to post vvhore? :yawn:

I actually agree with your statement, but the douchiness if your delivery makes me question your intent.

No evil intent, just sharing my opinion. I made it short and sweet because... well... that's all I had to say about it, lol. What else is needed, really?

The post just happening to be my 1,500th is pure coincidence.

 

[Reluctant_Seducer]

well if I had to choose between the two..I'd certainly most rather be amazing at sex and horrible at pick up.

 

[Ace of Flames]

well if I had to choose between the two..I'd certainly most rather be amazing at sex and horrible at pick up.

I wouldn't.

Being amazing at pickup will eventually lead to being amazing at sex, just from the sheer amount of practice you'd get.

Being amazing at sex doesn't really lead to any opportunities to USE it, except with a pre-established relationship, like a gf. Or I guess you could do porn...

 

[[S]alvatore]

Yes I agree, but how are you supposed to get into her pants without having game? Is she going to be able to tell that you're good in the sack just by looking at you and spread her legs without you saying a word? Please think more carefully in the future before posting.

 

[mongolboy]

Spare me all the gibber jabber and just fucin say how to 2 get laid plz tired of all this arguin and useless comments i need guidence or a mentor!

 

[mongolboy]

Ahaha and i made an promise not 2 jack off again and that only my gf would do that for me and it is quite working well i tell ya ive never been so sexual in my hole life and boy i enjoy the **** outta it.

 

[mongolboy]

Aight yall so i found out a really quick way to motivate yourself
Basically this kind of thinking improved my game more than anything!
"ARE YOU GOING 2 LET THAT MOTHERFUCA STEAL YOUR GIRL AND LIFE ?"
basically if you think in this kinda way nothin will fucin get in your way nothin i promise you that ****... unless u some skiny ass 5,4 motha fuca that is afraid of the world jk Much Love. NOMOTHA FUCA IS BETTER THAN YOU, THEY JUST THINK THEY ARE BETTER THAN YOU

 

[punchitchewy]

For those of you lacking experience...

OP is more right than a lot of you guys would think, and the reason is because sexual experience and game are not nearly as independent as you think they are. This is especially true if you're a virgin or very inexperienced or just very insecure with your sexuality.

We all constantly give off vibes that we have no idea we are giving off (and basically it's almost impossible to control all of these vibes) and lacking sexual experience with women will generally give off a vibe that makes women very uncomfortable when you try to get physical with them or even talk to them in a seductive way. I shlt you not, and don't jump to the conclusion that you don't do it if you're inexperienced without considering the possibility. It's not just women who pick up on the vibe, but guys too, and I'm sure some of you guys get uneasy when the topic of women is brought up with your buddies. A lot of times you can talk to a person for 5 minutes about things that are unrelated to sex and you just know they get laid very rarely if at all. (Of course this is also due to a lot of other factors, but the point is lack of sexual experience effects the way you act in a way that people pick up on and is difficult to control.)

It also comes back to the idea of congruence. How the hell are you supposed to act like a huge alpha male who dates and lays women all the time when it's really a facade covering your lack of past sexual experience? You act like a big shot but in the end you know you will ultimately be a disappointment and that makes you feel like a poser (because in reality you are posing in a way) and the girl will pick up untrustworthy and nervous vibes that clash with your so-called, "I don't give a fvck" and "I'm a straight shooter" persona .

Do yourself a favor and find a girl who you consider barely fvckable and ask her out and try to get into her pants asap. "Dude wtf are you thinking?" Well how bout you forget about what your buddies think of you for a sec and look out for number one: You will enjoy the experience and you will learn from it, and you will hopefully lose a chunk of that creepy nervous energy you're carrying around. Not only that, but you're taking a big step towards being honest with yourself: "I would rather sleep with a girl who isn't really that attractive than sleep alone anymore." Sleep with her a bunch of times if you want or move up the ladder a bit until you feel more comfortable with your sexuality and-TADA! "Wow it's suddenly so much easier to talk to girls I actually want to date!" What's there to be ashamed of anyway? Even guys who have been with tons of women go hoggin once and a while when they're shlt housed, are you so much better than all of them? "Dude you're sick...you're saying we should use these chicks and dump them." If you are congruent and aggressively push for the lay and make it obvious you're going for a physical relationship she will either say no, in which case neither of you really care, or yes, in which case she knows exactly what she's getting into and you should both have fun. You don't think chicks enjoy ONS or brief sexual liaisons? Besides, the way a lot of you guys seem to think, shouldn't she be 'honored' to be with you? LOL

Look at it this way: thinking highly of yourself and believing you deserve 10's is great but you guys ignore the key even though you seem to quote Pook religiously: You have to BE THE PRIZE. You are NOT THE PRIZE if you are brutally inexperienced in the bedroom. Like I said, how can you truly be the prize if you don't yet possess the ability fulfill a women's desire for great sex? You guys are gung ho for self-improvement via going to the gym and keeping busy with hobbies, why not work to improve on something that makes such a huge difference such as being comfortable getting physical with women by lowering your ridiculous standards for awhile? Once again FORGET ABOUT WHAT YOUR FRIENDS THINK FOR A MOMENT AND LOOK OUT FOR YOURSELF. Your ridiculous standards are not a result of your natural tendencies but are an expression of your insecurities about how your self-worth is connected to the beauty of the women you are with. Your standards should go up naturally not so much out of a desire to impress anyone but because you now have the genuine knowledge that the woman you are attracted is lucky to be with you because you really are the real deal in every way.

As a side note if you think of your love life as a quest to conquer as many HB9's and 10's as you can and spin as many plates as possible so everyone you know thinks you're the shlt you're an idiot. :kick: You get involved with a woman for you and no one else, because in the end you're the one getting you're dlck wet and dealing with the consequences, not them.
"Amen." Thanks.

 

[VashStampede]

I was under the impression that this was obvious and didn't need to be said out loud..

Quite a few guys are not looking for serious relationships atm, as much as they are getting sexual experience and having fun, so that when the girl they want does come along, they wont disappoint..

 

[mongolboy]

HEHE agreed but eww id rather sleep bymyself than next 2 an fugly ass ho

 

[Maxtro]

Punchitchewy, you basically said the same thing that AFC Savior said a couple of weeks ago. That guys with little to no experience should go out, find a girl that is less than ideal and screw her to get some experience. It was an idea that many people were against, but I was for it. I realized long ago that if I only chased the hotties then I would never get any pussy. Unfortunately I haven't been applying it to my life. I need to get over myself and realize that women who are not super cute still have pussy's and sex with them is still good. Heck it's a lot better than no sex.

I'm sure I have been giving away creepy vibes. At least I think I am cause I can't think of any reason why no girls are attracted to me. I'm totally comfortable talking about sex but those types of conversations don't happen very often.

Your ridiculous standards are not a result of your natural tendencies but are an expression of your insecurities about how your self-worth is connected to the beauty of the women you are with.

I don't know about this though. An attraction to and a desire to pursue beauty is a very natural thing. Even babies like pretty women more than ugly ones. Is there anything wrong with wanting a girl who is so hot she makes you hard when you just look at her even if she is wearing clothes? The problem is that when very attractive women are around, the lesser women tend to be ignored. In other words it's very difficult to make myself pursue a 5 when a 9 is just a few feet away.

 

[punchitchewy]

Punchitchewy, you basically said the same thing that AFC Savior said a couple of weeks ago.

My bad I don't usually come here that often.

I don't know about this though. An attraction to and a desire to pursue beauty is a very natural thing. Even babies like pretty women more than ugly ones. Is there anything wrong with wanting a girl who is so hot she makes you hard when you just look at her even if she is wearing clothes? The
problem is that when very attractive women are around, the lesser women tend to be ignored. In other words it's very difficult to make myself pursue a 5 when a 9 is just a few feet away.

O ya, I don't mean it's not natural to be attracted to hotties, otherwise why would every guy be chasing them? And you're right, pursuing a 5 feels like a waste of time but as a general rule it's not too hard to have a 5 or 6 pursuing you if you have the rest of your **** together. I'll tell you what: You're standards are only ridiculous if they are ridiculously hard to live up to, so if you really think you have the kind of game that will allow you to bed that HB9 go for it, but a lot of guys who are lacking in sexual experience will lack so much inner game that when push comes to shove they won't be able to close the deal and it will be one nervous interaction after another until she gets sick of how much value she has to you and leaves. Remember you have A LOT of competition when it comes to getting these kinds of women and any kind of flaw in your game is going to make you second best. When you're dealing with a chick who's mediocre by comparison (she still HAS to turn you on in some kind of way or don't go for it) it's a lot easier to take things all the way, not only because her standards are lower, but because you don't fear failure so much because you don't feel like you've lost anything if you blow it.

All I'm saying is that if you're lacking experience, making the decision to pretty much refuse to start a sexual relationship with that HB6 when she's eyeing you up and clearly wants to jump your bones and you want sex is usually unreasonable.

Ask yourself this: If everyone else in the world would look at her and think she's an 8, but you would still see her as a 5 or 6, would you go for it?

One final thing you should ask yourself: Will I really be satisfied if I get an HB 9 into my bed and completely fail to get it up and/or cvm in a minute and/or fail to make her orgasm in any way? You see unless you are spectacularly good in bed for your time or first few times the chick is going to instadump you after anyway because she has so many options, and if you're honest with yourself you will probably say at that point, "Wow I feel like a loser and that was pretty much a huge letdown. I would have rather fooled around first with some other girls I wouldn't really want to have as gf's." Being honest with yourself is a huge part of this. "But, I really have NO desire to have sex with an HB6 or 5. It just turns me off." How the hell can she be average or above average and not turn you on at all? Just picture yourself sucking on her nlpples then fvcking her till she screams and cvms and if you're not turned on, then she's not a 6 to you or you need new testes.

On a final note the hotness scale is retardedly relative and I'm sure that's been discussed ad nauseam; so basically find a girl that you think is kind of cute (and preferably easy ) and you hit it off with and just go for it because it's fun.

 

[FutureSpartan]

My bad I don't usually come here that often.




O ya, I don't mean it's not natural to be attracted to hotties, otherwise why would every guy be chasing them? And you're right, pursuing a 5 feels like a waste of time but as a general rule it's not too hard to have a 5 or 6 pursuing you if you have the rest of your **** together. I'll tell you what: You're standards are only ridiculous if they are ridiculously hard to live up to, so if you really think you have the kind of game that will allow you to bed that HB9 go for it, but a lot of guys who are lacking in sexual experience will lack so much inner game that when push comes to shove they won't be able to close the deal and it will be one nervous interaction after another until she gets sick of how much value she has to you and leaves. Remember you have A LOT of competition when it comes to getting these kinds of women and any kind of flaw in your game is going to make you second best. When you're dealing with a chick who's mediocre by comparison (she still HAS to turn you on in some kind of way or don't go for it) it's a lot easier to take things all the way, not only because her standards are lower, but because you don't fear failure so much because you don't feel like you've lost anything if you blow it.

All I'm saying is that you're decision to pretty much refuse to start a sexual relationship with that HB6 when she's eyeing you up and clearly wants to jump your bones and you have perhaps never been laid is usually unreasonable.

Ask yourself this: If everyone else in the world would look at her and think she's an 8, but you would still see her as a 5 or 6, would you go for it?

One final thing you should ask yourself: Will I really be satisfied if I get an HB 9 into my bed and completely fail to get it up and/or cvm in a minute and/or fail to make her orgasm in any way? You see unless you are spectacularly good in bed for your time or first few times the chick is going to instadump you after anyway because she has so many options, and if you're honest with yourself you will probably say at that point, "Wow I feel like a loser and that was pretty much a huge letdown. I would have rather fooled around first with some other girls I wouldn't really want to have as gf's." Being honest with yourself is a huge part of this. "But, I really have NO desire to have sex with an HB6 or 5. It just turns me off." How the hell can she be average or above average and not turn you on at all? Just picture yourself sucking on her nlpples then fvcking her till she screams and cvms and if you're not turned on, then she's not a 6 to you or you need new testes.

Blame porn for todays ridiculous standards. Today's men would rather masturbate furiously to big titted coke addicts than doing the real thing on a real woman.