The veterans and seasoned visitors know this. Newbies, and those still feeling as if they're AFC, don't.
The odd catch-22 of dating sites, such as this one, as helpful as 'info' topics are, is that when you post asking for feedback, you've already killed it and revealed your hand. Asking for reassurance in a world of uncertainty is akin to chopping off your balls and handing them to the women you're seeing.
DON'T DO IT.
God gave you a brain, or at least some higher being did, realize there's more depth of knowledge locked away than you will ever discover. Soak up what's useful from this and other sites and get to practicing. I realize people want advice and reassurance, as well as confirmation of actions, intentions, interest, etc, but such things are not quite as possible to foresee, that by the time it's asked, the answer is completely different.
The minute you think you've mastered the game, they flip the script and give you a new one to learn.
The only way to master it is to truly play it and come up with your own rules that suit your life and goals.
Alot of times friends ask me for advice, but as previously stated on stocks, in the purest sense, that's impossible.
First off...what I would do is different than what he would do.
Secondly...she will react to what he does differently than if I do it.
Third, by the time the plotting is over, it's too late to have acted on what was a passing thought.
In the military, the first few weeks of bootcamp are meant to break a cadet down. They're MEANT TO FAIL, to realize they must work TOGETHER to succeed. The same applies here, REALIZE TO SUCCEED, YOU MUST FAIL, YOU MUST FEEL PAIN, YOU MUST FLOUNDER, CRY, STRESS, WIMPER, and BECOME FRUSTRATED, until all the dormant Testosterone comes to life and your true self-contained inner being springs forth.
Muscles don't grow and change without repeated exposure to stress.
The same applies to ANY strong force you can dream of in nature. Do you believe your personality, self-image, body, and habits are any different?
Using the guide posts of the best advice on this site, your BRAIN/MIND, and action, you'll be unstoppable. And do yourself a favor, make self-image improvement and physical/body improvement priorities. Yes, women will go for a guy, NOT always based on looks, but in the experiences i"ve seen, it's rare, and sometimes the relationship is alot weaker than it appears. Sometimes he's a bit more AFC than you realize. So why go that route?
Get ya azz to the gym for the following reasons...
1. It makes life easier when approaching women. Being in shape separates you from the others.
2. It balances bad genetics which will end haunting up you down the road.
3. It's your body, is there ANYTHING more prized than your vehicle for life-support, aside from your brain?
4. It gives you confidence in yourself, in addition to that which you have over your life, completing the confidence sphere.
5. Something to do with that XBOX, TV, DRINKING, SLEEPING-IN TIME.
Need I go on?
Guys, there's no secrets, no short-cuts, very few super masters. Life is all-perception, and with so many distorted realities, there are those of you beliving you're AFC, and aren't, and even those out there who purport to be "Masters" are only full of hot air. Your minds and bodies took upwards of 16 years to be shaped in such a way, without focused attention deep passion it will be impossible to get anywhere other than where you are.
1. Asking for confirmations, reassurance, etc, is weak-old school stuff you should be draining out of your systems.
2. A Straight answer indicates that the person wields no power.
3. You can't know what attracts a person. It's a response, but who know's what they're responding to at that moment? Looks, money, images, fame, social-proof, drugs, states, sex, motivations, intentions.
When you're dealing in a game of evolving players, all wielding hundreds of volatile chemicals, the game is hardly black and white, but it is life or death. The life you choose to lead, or the death of the person you could become.
A-Unit
The odd catch-22 of dating sites, such as this one, as helpful as 'info' topics are, is that when you post asking for feedback, you've already killed it and revealed your hand. Asking for reassurance in a world of uncertainty is akin to chopping off your balls and handing them to the women you're seeing.
DON'T DO IT.
God gave you a brain, or at least some higher being did, realize there's more depth of knowledge locked away than you will ever discover. Soak up what's useful from this and other sites and get to practicing. I realize people want advice and reassurance, as well as confirmation of actions, intentions, interest, etc, but such things are not quite as possible to foresee, that by the time it's asked, the answer is completely different.
The minute you think you've mastered the game, they flip the script and give you a new one to learn.
The only way to master it is to truly play it and come up with your own rules that suit your life and goals.
Alot of times friends ask me for advice, but as previously stated on stocks, in the purest sense, that's impossible.
First off...what I would do is different than what he would do.
Secondly...she will react to what he does differently than if I do it.
Third, by the time the plotting is over, it's too late to have acted on what was a passing thought.
In the military, the first few weeks of bootcamp are meant to break a cadet down. They're MEANT TO FAIL, to realize they must work TOGETHER to succeed. The same applies here, REALIZE TO SUCCEED, YOU MUST FAIL, YOU MUST FEEL PAIN, YOU MUST FLOUNDER, CRY, STRESS, WIMPER, and BECOME FRUSTRATED, until all the dormant Testosterone comes to life and your true self-contained inner being springs forth.
Muscles don't grow and change without repeated exposure to stress.
The same applies to ANY strong force you can dream of in nature. Do you believe your personality, self-image, body, and habits are any different?
Using the guide posts of the best advice on this site, your BRAIN/MIND, and action, you'll be unstoppable. And do yourself a favor, make self-image improvement and physical/body improvement priorities. Yes, women will go for a guy, NOT always based on looks, but in the experiences i"ve seen, it's rare, and sometimes the relationship is alot weaker than it appears. Sometimes he's a bit more AFC than you realize. So why go that route?
Get ya azz to the gym for the following reasons...
1. It makes life easier when approaching women. Being in shape separates you from the others.
2. It balances bad genetics which will end haunting up you down the road.
3. It's your body, is there ANYTHING more prized than your vehicle for life-support, aside from your brain?
4. It gives you confidence in yourself, in addition to that which you have over your life, completing the confidence sphere.
5. Something to do with that XBOX, TV, DRINKING, SLEEPING-IN TIME.
Need I go on?
Guys, there's no secrets, no short-cuts, very few super masters. Life is all-perception, and with so many distorted realities, there are those of you beliving you're AFC, and aren't, and even those out there who purport to be "Masters" are only full of hot air. Your minds and bodies took upwards of 16 years to be shaped in such a way, without focused attention deep passion it will be impossible to get anywhere other than where you are.
1. Asking for confirmations, reassurance, etc, is weak-old school stuff you should be draining out of your systems.
2. A Straight answer indicates that the person wields no power.
3. You can't know what attracts a person. It's a response, but who know's what they're responding to at that moment? Looks, money, images, fame, social-proof, drugs, states, sex, motivations, intentions.
When you're dealing in a game of evolving players, all wielding hundreds of volatile chemicals, the game is hardly black and white, but it is life or death. The life you choose to lead, or the death of the person you could become.
A-Unit
